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In Memory Of

Benjamin Aguirre, age 69, of Miles City, MT

January 25, 1952 – July 3, 2021

Benjamin Wesley Aguirre (“The Legend” to the derby community), AKA Jabe Peacher

January 25, 1952- July 3, 2021

In the early morning hours of July 3, 2021, Ben peacefully passed away at the age of 69 at home in Miles City surrounded by family, after a 6-year battle with a heart condition.

Ben was born on January 25, 1952 to Benjamin Alfonso Aguirre and Dorothy Benjamin Aguirre, in Miles City, MT. The family resided about 45 miles SE of Miles City where his dad worked at the LO Ranch owned by Mary and Bob Hardy. Ben attended the one room LO School just down from their bunkhouse. It was a one room classroom with grades 1-8 with about 5 or 6 kids total, and one teacher.

As a baby, Ben was nicknamed” Jabe Peacher ” by a relative, and that name stuck! Ben was baptized Catholic by Father Patrick Berther, from Ashland. Who would come offer mass once a month at the LO School or in someone’s house.

He gained a sister, Charity, a few years later. Salvador and Connie Aguirre also live in the bunkhouse at the LO, so Ben and Charity had numerous cousins as their playmates. In January 1963 the family welcomed another sister Carla. In 1964 the family moved to Miles City when Ben was 12. Sister Carrie was born that December.

He attended Washington Middle School, and graduated from CCDHS in 1969, at the age of 17. During High School, Ben lettered in wrestling, and was a member of FFA. After graduating high school, Ben spent time working with his cousins at the horse track. He also spent time as a brick layer and working road construction.

In 1971, Ben met Kathy bringing Larry, Donald, and Dyna to the family. They then welcomed daughter Libertie in July of 1974.

Ben moved back to the LO Ranch with his family in 1982. He then married his wife Toni on June 3, 1984 at the LO Ranch, bringing Raoul, James, and Ryan to the family. They had their son Ben in October of 1983. Shortly after, they moved to the valley, they had their daughter Tabbetha in May of 1985. Later that summer, Ben was baptized into the 7th Day Adventist Church. They then moved to Miles City and welcomed another son, Jonathan in June of 1987.

Ben had spent time working for the USGS seismographing off and on from 1974-1990 and later took a job at the stock yard in Miles City so he could spend more time and be closer to his family. During these years Ben would build derby cars, often with the assistance of his children. Letting them bust out the windows and help paint the cars. He then began a career with the Dept. of Sanitation and continued that career after moving to California in 1996, eventually retiring from the City of Fresno Dept. of Sanitation in 2009. During his time in California, He is remembered by his daughter Tabbetha, for making it a point to make it to all of his kids sporting events. Traveling to different basketball, wrestling, and football games, supporting his children.

Ben then moved back to Miles City in 2013, enjoying retirement surrounded by children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. He spent this time truly enjoying his passions in life, traveling around to different demolition derby’s competing in his final one in 2018, finding a live poker game on a weekend, tooling leather, and most of all playing his guitar with and for family and friends.

In his down time, He would spend his time with his dog Ying Yang curled up next to him on the couch with a cup of coffee at arm’s reach, watching his favorite things on tv. Either watching a derby on YouTube, reruns of poker tournaments, or UFO Files at bedtime, and church service on Saturdays.

Ben always took time to remind people how important family was. When clashes broke out, he would always remind people to not let the petty things get in the way. He was always proud of his children and their individual accomplishments. Often telling the stories in only a way he could, getting excited and louder as he went on telling the story, laughing and shouting by the end. He took pride in his children and loved them all, having stories to tell about each one. He never reserved himself from letting any of his kids or grandkids know when they were doing something stupid, and was never afraid to speak his mind. His stubbornness knew no bounds. Once he made up his mind, there was no changing it.

Many of his friends and family will remember his simple phrases “Dirty”, as a response to snarky comments made, “Nancy” if he thought you were being over dramatic, or calling everyone “Jack” at some point.

Benjamin was preceded in death by his Father Benjamin Alfonso Aguirre, Mother Dorothy Benjamin Aguirre, and Baby Sister Aguirre, his Grandparents Nicholas Jose and Rachel Garcia Aguirre, Wesley Elijah and Alma Russell Benjamin, brother in-law Tom Venable, and Father in-law Max Young.

Benjamin is survived by his sisters, Charity Aguirre, Carla (Gary) Fox, Carrie (Rob) Pederson. Kathy Millspaugh of Oregon, and their children Larry (Betty) Bennett, Donald Bennett, Dyna (DJ) McCarthy, Libertie (Brendan “Billy”) Jones. His ex-wife Toni Smith of California and their children, Raoul Childs, James Childs, Ryan Noble, Benjamin (Reylene) Aguirre, Tabbetha (James) Aguirre-Hunziker, Jonathan (Diana) Aguirre. His grandchildren Brandon (Ann) Bennett, Kasey (Talia) Bennett, Destiny (Jimmy) Yeager, Justice Aguirre, Elizabeth (Gabe) McBride, Claire and Tiberius Aguirre, Alexus, Alvin, and Jacob Hunziker, Angelina and Cheyanna Nalton, Makenzie Brewer, Tyson, Levi, and Christian Jones. Great grandchildren Tiegan, Lucas, Emily, Violet, and Link. Ben is also survived by numerous cousins, nieces and nephews that he held dear to his heart.

Special thanks to MCPD, Miles City EMS, and the Emergency Room staff at Holy Rosary Hospital. Thank you for your service in our time of need.

The Aguirre Family will be accepting donations towards a memorial bench in Ben’s name. Any donations or flowers may be sent to Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home in Miles City, Mt.

A visitation will be held on Thursday, July 15, 2021 from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. with a Rosary Service to follow at 4:00 p.m. at Stevenson & Son’s Funeral Home in Miles City. A funeral service will be held on Friday, July 16, 2021 at 2:00 p.m. at Stevenson & Son’s Funeral Home. Interment will be held at the Custer County Cemetery. The family will hold a celebration of life gathering at Matthews Recreation Area for family and friends, following the graveside service.

Thank you all for your support of the family.

 

Service Schedule

Visitation

1:00 PM to 4:00 PM

Thursday July 15, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Rosary Service

4:00 PM

Thursday July 15, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Funeral Service

2:00 PM

Friday July 16, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Interment

After Funeral Service

Friday July 16, 2021

Custer County Cemetery

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Service Schedule

Visitation

1:00 PM to 4:00 PM

Thursday July 15, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Rosary Service

4:00 PM

Thursday July 15, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Funeral Service

2:00 PM

Friday July 16, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Interment

After Funeral Service

Friday July 16, 2021

Custer County Cemetery

Miles City, Montana 59301

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  1. Dan Herzog says

    July 3, 2021 at 5:48 pm

    Prayers for family

  2. Tom Benjamin says

    July 4, 2021 at 8:41 am

    Ben was my best friend and cousin growing up. I have a lot of memories. Bump and runs, drag racing, hunting and working at the LO ranch together. I will miss you my friend. My condolences to his family and to his sisters Charity, Carla and Carrie.

  3. Diane M Welbes says

    July 4, 2021 at 11:21 am

    So sorry for your loss.

  4. Ruben and June Opp says

    July 4, 2021 at 3:57 pm

    Charity,and family, we are so sorry to see where your brother Ben has passed away. Another neighbor in his youth, May you all be comforted during this difficult time.
    Ruben and June Opp

  5. MARTHA CRANDALL says

    July 4, 2021 at 7:34 pm

    My sympathy.

  6. Josephine Meidinger says

    July 4, 2021 at 8:55 pm

    My deepest sympathy.

  7. Donna & Mark Sindelar says

    July 4, 2021 at 10:46 pm

    Charity and family, so sorry for your loss. hope good memories help you thru this difficult time.

  8. Chris Gregory says

    July 5, 2021 at 4:09 am

    Dear Charity, Thinking of you. My deepest sympathy to you as you navigate this sad time.

  9. David & Danette Olguin says

    July 5, 2021 at 10:45 am

    We are so sorry for your loss and our prayers are with all of you.

  10. Mark R Nielsen says

    July 5, 2021 at 5:58 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss, Derbys just wont be the same with out Ben.

  11. The Shields family says

    July 5, 2021 at 7:13 pm

    He was a good man to everyone, a good friend. he will be missed

  12. Don Fox and family says

    July 6, 2021 at 8:06 am

    So sorry for your loss Liberty and family Jabe was a hell of a cousin , we had some good times together and he will be missed by many

  13. Pam Rogge says

    July 6, 2021 at 9:16 am

    Charity and family, My prayers and condolences on the loss of your brother.

  14. Antonia Klein says

    July 6, 2021 at 2:17 pm

    Charity, Liberty and family, so very sorry to hear about the loss of your brother and father. My prayers and condolences to all of you.

  15. Ben &Eileen Benjamin & Strad & Kent says

    July 6, 2021 at 6:29 pm

    We have you in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs.

  16. Herm and Diane Venable says

    July 7, 2021 at 8:18 pm

    So sorry for the loss of your brother, Charity. He is in the hands of a loving father.

  17. Peanuts Money says

    July 8, 2021 at 12:02 pm

    Charity-So sorry for the loss of your brother -He was a very kind man-Prayers for you all!

  18. Dolores Meidinger Willson says

    July 8, 2021 at 2:23 pm

    So very sorry to hear of Ben’s passing. As a brother, Father & friend to many, he has left his mark.

  19. Ron and Marilyn Frize says

    July 8, 2021 at 5:05 pm

    We are so sorry to hear if Ben’s passing. Prayers for all his family.

  20. Barbara Ashley says

    July 8, 2021 at 8:14 pm

    So sorry for your loss.

  21. Ronna and Donna says

    July 9, 2021 at 9:10 pm

    To the Family of Ben,
    Our sympathies in the loss of your brother. He will always be with you, always in your hearts.

  22. Debi Rapstad says

    July 10, 2021 at 11:32 am

    I’m so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

  23. Laura Sevier says

    July 11, 2021 at 10:25 am

    CharityI am truly sorry for your loss of your brother passing away 😢 My thoughts and prayers 🙏 are with your family at this difficult time in your lives. If you need a shoulder to cry 😢 on or need to talk to, you may cry on my shoulder and talk to me. My lips will be securely sealed/taped shut, not a word will come out of my mouth. I will just be an amazing listener! Your rock 🪨 pumpkin 🎃 hunting Best Friends Laura and her dog 🐕Olive!!!!

  24. Tabbetha Aguirre says

    July 12, 2021 at 9:31 am

    My dad is truly missed everyday he is gone. Praying for strength, and peace for my family in these times. Love you dad RIP.

  25. Terry Hulford says

    July 12, 2021 at 3:01 pm

    I am so sorry for the loss of your brother, Charity, may the Lord comfort and hold all the family close at this time of grief and loss.
    Sincerely,
    Terry Hulford (Scanlan)

  26. Mary Ottoy says

    July 12, 2021 at 8:09 pm

    Prayers for your family.

  27. Big Ed says

    July 13, 2021 at 11:59 am

    RIP

  28. Janet Klein says

    July 13, 2021 at 9:27 pm

    You are in my thoughts and prayers

  29. Tammy Benjamin says

    July 14, 2021 at 12:20 am

    My deepest condolences. I remember when we would come visit and we stay with you all. May he rest in peace.

  30. Libertie says

    July 14, 2021 at 11:52 pm

    I Love you dad!

  31. Charity says

    July 16, 2021 at 10:21 pm

    Love you Big Brother !! Pray for me !

  32. Toni says

    July 17, 2021 at 7:50 pm

    Ben was a complicated man but I will love him until the day I die. He gave me wonderful children and I learned how to be strong because of him. I will see you soon my love . God bless you and keep you until we are reunited.

  33. Joe & Marie Valenzuela says

    April 23, 2022 at 5:20 am

    Ben was my friend, I met Ben at work,City of Fresno, solid waste. Me and my family loved Ben and his children. I agree Ben left his mark, I will remember Ben forever, I will see him again in heaven.
    Rest in peace my friend.

  34. Genea M says

    December 29, 2022 at 12:52 pm

    Thank you for your amazing son, Jonathan. I know you are looking down upon us along with my beautiful mother. Jonathan is so good to me …. I know you taught him well. I love you and I’ll see you in heaven one day❤️

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Service Schedule

Visitation

1:00 PM to 4:00 PM

Thursday July 15, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Rosary Service

4:00 PM

Thursday July 15, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Funeral Service

2:00 PM

Friday July 16, 2021

Stevenson and Sons Funeral Home

1717 Main Street

Miles City, Montana 59301

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Interment

After Funeral Service

Friday July 16, 2021

Custer County Cemetery

Miles City, Montana 59301

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