Brian Douglas Harris, died peacefully in his home in Albuquerque, NM on Sunday, July 8, 2018. He was a beloved son, brother, cousin, uncle and friend. He graced this earth for 54 years, born on July 19, 1963 at the Holy Rosary Hospital to Marilyn Harris (Dickson) and Jerry Harris of Miles City, Montana. He is preceded in death by Jesse and Doris Harris, Roger Harris, Jerry Harris, Don Harris, Rita Lindvold, Jenny Martin, Hayley Martin, Rachel Pluhar, Kayla Harris, Norvin and Gladys Christopherson.
Brian attended school at Jefferson Elementary and Custer County High School where he graduated in 1981. In High School, Brian was a four year letter winner in Wrestling. His senior year he placed second at the State Tournament in Glasgow, Montana. He was also an avid bowler in the Recreation Lanes Junior League. He continued bowling after high school and would average 190 – 200 consistently.
He attended the School of Mines in Las Cruces, NM from 1981- 1982 for computer science. He then headed back to Montana to attend Montana State University in Bozeman where he was a big fan of the Bobcat Football team. While in Bozeman, he learned the roofing trade and worked there until 1998. He let us know often that the cold winters would be a thing of the past for him and true to his word moved back to New Mexico where he called Albuquerque his home. He roofed for a major roofing company for a number of years before becoming a manager/supervisor for Wal-Mart where he spent the last fifteen years helping build two stores and finishing his last five years at a brand new store in Albuquerque. In Albuquerque, Brian would spend his spare time rooting for the Dallas Cowboys, bicycling and he became an avid golfer.
Brian was known as the fun uncle to his many nieces and nephews. He had a joyous personality and brought that to his attitude towards life. He was full of humor and always in a good mood with something positive to say that gave you the feeling he loved life. He was playful and warm in his voice and laugh.
Lisa – “I remember he was always the funny uncle growing up. He would tease us a lot . It was really nice getting to spend time with him the past year, at Andra’s wedding, and tailgating a Broncos / Cowboys game last year!”
Conner – “Thanksgiving in Durango watching his Cowboys play. We were the only ones in the house that cared at all about the game and we had a blast.”
Teal – “I can’t remember where this took place but it was years ago, when we all went white water rafting and some of us went jumping off the cliff into the water, he was there helping and reassuring the ones who were younger and scared that all would be okay. Or he was always cracking jokes too. I sure will miss him. wish I would have gotten the opportunity to spend more time with him”
Taylor “I have a lot of great memories of Brian, always fun and playful to be around, especially his voice and his laugh, very unique and warming.”
Andra – “One memory I have is he would chase us when we were little. He would also call us knuckle heads. And we would call Brian, Uncle Knuckle Head.”
Ed, Sven and Bjorn – “Fun to be around always joking with us and good memories at reunions, we were too young and glad we knew him – would have liked to have seen him more.”
Nicole – “My most fond memory of Uncle Brian has to be his laugh and his smile. Christmas 2016 he got us all Christmas presents and the smile on his face when we all opened them will forever be unforgettable. You could see the joy all across his face that he got to be with all of us!”
Jason – “I think probably hanging with him at family get togethers, floating the river was always a blast with him, I’d say he knew how to live it up to the fullest, gonna miss him.”
Amanda – “Having a water balloon fight with him and all the other cousins at our cabin in Ennis.”
Stephanie – “Christmas of 2016 our heater went out in the Traverse so we ended up staying in Miles City longer. We were able to go to Tilt Works with Mom, Jon and Brian and we watched the Cowboys game and played darts together! It was a lot of fun. That same night Brian would hit his hand on the table and then Stetsyn would copy him. (She was 5 months old at this time)”
Amy – “I remember when Jenny and I were little we would go and jump on him to wake him up at grandma’s house. He was always fun to be around and loved to make us laugh.”
Kane – “He was always a favorite Uncle at our home for holidays and incredibly giving of his time- joining for the whole weekend of sideline coaching at his great nieces sports events. We will miss him tremendously.”
Marshal – “Mostly his comic nature. All the memories I have he was always joking around, smiling and laughing.”
Blake – “I think it was two years ago when Brain was down in Miles City around Christmas. I thought it was pretty awesome that he thought about Dawson and Stetsyn to get them presents. Just thought that was very nice of him to think about them. He thought of Katrina and I as well.”
Melissa – “I’ve always really appreciated and valued the love and time that Uncle Brian put towards building a relationship with Amanda and I. He always made such an effort to spend time playing with us at every family get together. He had this amazing energy and love for life that was infectious and even though I didn’t fully recognize it as a child it is very evident to me now why we were so drawn to being around him as kids. I wish we had been able to further grow our relationship as adults but I am grateful for the moments we did have.”
Darla “I always remember Uncle Brain as being so funny. You could say he is the funniest Uncle but all of your brothers are pretty funny He was always joking and playing pranks. He had the best laugh and an awesome smile you could feel. He was wonderful. I wish I could have seen him one more time. Hat
always backwards and sun glasses. Every time he would come play with all of us.
Wiffleball whatever we were getting into, swings. All that fun stuff.”
To his friends who remember him from college and high school, he was a good friend, kind, generous and always willing to help out.
He will be remembered for his gentle giant personality. We Love YOU Brian –
His parents, Bob and Marilyn Dickson of Miles City, Montana
His siblings, David and Colette Harris of Miles City, Mark Harris and Rebecca Eames of Bayfield, Colorado, Stephen and Cheryl Harris of Absarokee, Montana, Michael and Kathy Harris of Bozeman, Montana, Anita and Chad Otterness of Goodhue, Minnesota, Jon and Cara Harris of Miles City, Montana, Ron and Cindy Dickson of Fort Collins Colorado, Lori Dickson of Miles City, Montana and Jane and Dennis Pluhar of Miles City Montana.
His nieces and nephews, Braden Harris, Taylor Harris, Darla Harris, Teal Harris, Jason Harris, Kane Anderson, Conner Harris, Amy Downey, Andra Menhennett, Lisa Kindsvater, Melissa Harris, Amanda Harris, Edward Otterness, Sven Otterness, Bjorn Otterness, Ryan Harris, Tyler Harris, Jordan Harris, Stephanie Solberg, Nicole Richardson, Blake Richardson, Karen Craddick, Laura Dickson, Ellie Koehl, Marshal Pluhar, and Adam Pluhar.
His aunts and Uncles, Joe and Sharon McDonald, Mary Rose Hettinger and Ed and Sandra Harris.
His cousins, Tim McDonald, Terry McDonald, Tracie McDonald, Tom McDonald, Terry Rumph, Tom Riggs, Linda Losinski, Lorraine Dunbar, Dory Patrini, Dan Hettinger, Shelly Jenkins, Kyle Harris and Alana King.
His many great nieces and nephews.
Also his many friends throughout the years!
We would also like to thank the many associates of the Wal-Mart Store in Albuquerque, NM who cared for and about Brian. Your compassion has not gone unnoticed in the last few years. His assistant store manager and a person Brian worked closely with shared these words with us, “Brian was an awesome associate, always on time, had a great sense of urgency and always wanting to help others. He had a great work ethic, he was a great supervisor. When we worked overnight together, he was my right hand man. I would catch him singing while he stocking freight, I would tell him, Brian, is that you singing and he would say no!, stop listening to me and get to work, we would both laugh. I would tell him awww are you singing to me and we would both laugh again, you wish.”
R.I.P Brian Harris 1963 – 2018 – a true Hero and Champion! “Always be joyful.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-17
A memorial service will take place at the United Christian Church of Miles City, MT in mid-August. Please come and celebrate Brian with us.
In memory of Brian, if you would like, send a memorial gift to the John Ritter foundation for aortic health found at johnritterfoundation.org/donate-today
Service Schedule
Services are pending at this time or no services will be held. If available, please see obituary for more information.
Service Schedule
Services are pending at this time or no services will be held. If available, please see obituary for more information.
Beth Ann says
Prayers for the Harris family
Kay Carlson says
My heart breaks. Marilyn and Jerry and family were a large part of growing up in First Lutheran.
Mark says
My prayers from the Harris Family
Tim and Neena Steadman says
Thoughts and prayers to the family! We are sorry
to see this!
Robin Woodard Marshall says
I loved Brian. Sad to hear that he has passed.
Laurie Janssen Claypool says
To all of Brian’s family, we send our thoughts and prayers! Thinking of you all at this difficult time! Duane, Laurie, Anna, and Bryan Claypool
Anita Otterness says
Our prayers and loving memories of our tender years. We will hold all in prayer. Thank you for your touching kindness for Brian, Anita and family –
Sydney Stabio Carlino says
Brian was a favorite. We were born one day apart which always made me smile. Hugs to Anita and the rest of the family.
Tim and Kathy Ohnstad Waldo says
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Harris and Dickson families. Rest easy Brian.
Patti Jo (Price) Brewster says
Marilyn and family,
No words can convey how sorry I am and my heart breaks for you. Brian was a great guy. May he rest in peace.
Mimi Meredith says
Anita and family, I hope those tender memories bring you great comfort. I’m so sorry for this loss.
Glady & Al Turnquist says
We are out of state and just heard. So sorry for your loss.
Nancy (Magnuson) Tennant says
Many prayers to the Harris family and all involved. Brian always had a wonderful smile! He will be missed.
Tonya says
So sorry to hear this news. Very talented wrestler in high school! My condolences to his family
Cheryl Lesh Clark says
Loved Brian…his laugh, his sense of humor and the sparkle in his eye. Peace and comfort to all who loved him in this time of grief and loss.
Mike Littleton says
So sorry to hear about Brian. Prayers to the Harris family. Certainly one the best individuals I had the pleasure to know.
Rick Tobin says
So sorry to hear and read about Brian. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Harris family. Much love, Rick Tobin
Sandi and Jim Updyke says
My heart is saddened at the loss of Brian. He was such a sweet soul. May he Rest In Peace and May the Harris family find comfort in the wonderful memories you all have .
Garry Turnquist says
My thoughts go out to the entire Harris family, I have many fond memories of Brian. I am so sorry for your loss.
Tari Klapmeier Van Noy says
We have lost a very special, gentle soul. Brian was so dear. Sending strength to the families for the days to come.
Paul Mentikov says
My thoughts and prayers for the Harris family!
It was great to know Brian. Rest in Peace.
Robyn Barthelmess says
So very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Lisa Marie Bastian says
Know of my thoughts and prayers for the Harris family. Brian always had a big heart & was a wonderful friend.
Allan Broberg says
Sorry to hear of Brian’s passing,my prayers to the family.
Shelley Killen says
My thoughts and prayers are with the Harris family. So sorry to hear of Brian’s passing I have such good memories of him always smiling and laughing.
Wanda Linnell Richlen says
Thoughts and prayers go out to Brian’s family. He was such a great guy. God Be with you
Treba Hollowell says
Dear Harris family,
I am so sorry to hear about Brian. I gave so many cherished memories with him and your family. Brian was a kind and joyful soul! He will be missed.
Pam Rogge says
Prayers and condolences to the Harris family at this time and in the days ahead.
Dale & Cindy Berg says
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. God bless you all.
Joe Fredrickson says
I’ll never forget the night in Glasgow at the state finals. You were a great friend and wrestling mentor to me and I’ll always cherish the friendship we had in school REST EASY MT FRIEND
David Harasymczuk says
Brian was one of the original good guys. Just like the rest of the Harris clan. He was funny, kinda quiet, with sneaky one liners that made us all laugh. My thoughts and prayers to all of you
Jill (Petro) Stenberg says
I am so sorry about Brian. He was one of the best. My thoughts and prayers to all of his friends and family.
David (Pete) Stabio says
Brian was a delight to have in class. He had a wonderful personality, was polite and his smile was contagious. The world needs more Brians. So sorry for your loss.
Bryan & Shannon Holmen says
We are so sad to hear this. Our prayers.
Jim munson says
I just heard about Brian’s passing and I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with the Harris family, keep close.
Esther Hurlburt says
My heart aches with your hearts. I remember when he was just a little kid when he moved into our neighborhood!
Jim and Mary Ann Liles says
Dear Marilyn and family, Our sincere sympathy to you and your family. Brian and I shared a birthday, I can remember when he was born. So many nice tributes to him here. You are in our prayers, dear old friend.
Mary Ann (Stockhill) and Jim Liles
Steve Hathaway says
So sorry to hear the news of Brian’s passing. I have alot of memories of those Jr. Bowling leagues and later in the adult leagues. My prayers and thoughts are with the entire family.
Dolores Christensen Hainer says
A funny thing happened at Brian’s Mom’s house where I stayed during the BHS. I slept on a twin bed next to the wall and in the night Brian climbed into the other twin bed by the door. I said, “Hi Brian”! I scared the wits out of him as he had no idea I was their. He left immediately and slept elsewhere. I will never forget that night!
Only seen him twice, but he had a great personality and he could win anybody over.
Anne (Bricco) Wald says
Brian was a great guy, always nice and upbeat.Prayers and hugs to all of his loved ones
Scott Jens says
To all the Harris family, I an saddened by the passing of Brian, I remember him well, a tough go getter on the matt and a yet king gentle soul. I know you will all miss him greatly, our prayers and thoughts go out to you.
Vicki says
RIP Brian. You were such sweet kid. Infectious smile even when you were little. Special prayers for Mark Harris and the Harris family