Brigitte Harms Memorial Service from GBC Miles City on Vimeo.
Brigitte Maria Harms was born on March 16, 1960 in Gelnhausen, Germany to Irma and Friederich Ullrich. She joined her heavenly family on November 17, 2021 in Miles City, MT surrounded by her husband of 42 years and her children and family.
Brigitte and Walter Harms Jr met and then married on December 15, 1978 in Gelnhausen, Germany, where Walt was stationed in the Army. On May 29, 1980, they made their way back to the United States with their oldest child Bernard and lived on various ranches in the Matla, MT area. They later welcomed two additional children, Jeremey and Josie. They were surrounded by the Harms and Johannesens, where the 2 families intertwined to make a large blended family that she was very proud of. They then moved to the southeastern MT area in 1983, again living on various ranches where Brigitte raised their 3 children, worked as a CNA, and Walt worked as a ranch hand.
Brigitte was a dedicated healthcare provider, working as a CNA for 32 years in various facilities, her favorite being the Friendship Village in the Alzheimer’s Unit. She fostered many lifelong friendships during this time. She always said that she felt like she was just working with her friends, taking care of others who have lost their minds. She often threatened Walt that she was going to drop him off there, but the only issue with that was, he knew the code to get out of the unit.
German blood ran thick through Brigitte’s veins, providing her with a huge heart that outpoured love, a great sense of humor, and of course her stubbornness. She perfected her infamous eye roll (which she inherited to her children) and loved getting the last word in with people, even in her final moments. Anyone who knew Brigitte, knew that she thought the world of her grandchildren. She was their confidant, protector, instigator of shenanigans, creator of the Christmas gag gift, master of “the Granny handshake”, and the best Oma ever. She even went so far as to convince them she had a brother Alf that lived upstairs. She enjoyed telling ghost stories, often firing up their wild imagination, convincing them when there was an unexpected sound or movement, and has promised to haunt Jeremey. Even in her last days, the one thing that made her face light up was having her grandchildren come to visit her. She never missed an opportunity to tell them Ich Liebe Dich.
She is survived by her husband Walter, her dog Dottie, their children Bernard (Erin) Harms, Jeremey (Meriah) Harms, and Josie (Randy) Reid, her grandchildren Cayeton, Charlie, Aila, Tyler, Jordin, Kahlon, Kaylee, Lexi, Colton, Peyton, Elyzabeth, Dailyn, Joseph and Jodie, her sister Karin (Manfred) Kraft, special niece Daniela and numerous extended family members and friends.
She is preceded in death by her parents, her sisters Lieselotte, Helga, Annemarie, and an infant sister Friedericke, Bill and Josie Shaw and Walter Harms Sr, and several family members too numerous to mention. She will be set free in locations special to her at a later date.
She did not want her death to be a time of sadness, but to instead be an opportunity to laugh and celebrate her well accomplished life. If friends and family should desire, memorial donations can be made directly to the Community 1st Federal Credit Union for the family.
A Memorial Service will be held at the Grace Bible Church on Saturday, December 4, 2021 at 11:00 a.m.. A luncheon will follow at the church. Please contact the family if you would like to bring a potluck dish.
Service Schedule
Funeral Service
11:00 a.m.
Saturday December 4, 2021
Grace Bible Church
3505 Stower Street
Miles City, MT 59301
Service Schedule
Funeral Service
11:00 a.m.
Saturday December 4, 2021
Grace Bible Church
3505 Stower Street
Miles City, MT 59301
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Joe ferris says
Harms family I’m so sorry for your loss. May you all have piece knowing she is in a better place. My deepest sympathy
Cheryl Smutt says
Harms family; So sorry for your loss, Brigitte was a wonderful lady. You are in my prayers.
Lin Koerper says
My prayers for all of you as you mourn the loss of Bridgette. I always enjoyed visiting with her at school functions and sharing memories of Germany. She was special in many ways . I pray for peace and comfort for each of you and ask The Lord to walk through this valley with you and bring healing to your hearts.
Nan says
So very sorry to hear of Bridgett passing. She was sweet sweet gal and I always enjoyed our visit s. Prayers to her husband Walter and family for comfort in this difficult time
Nan says
Brigette. So sorry. Auto correct
Danette & David Olguin says
Harms family we are so sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
Diana Robinette says
Sending my prayers and condolences to the Harms family for your loss of Brigette.
Brenda potts says
Prayers to Bridgett’s family sorry for the loss of such a great person
Blessings
Brenda Potts
Linvold & Schneider Family says
Jeremy and family, we are so sorry for your loss. May the Lord wrap his arms around you and carry you through the sorrow.
Tina webb says
I’m going to miss her smile and our talks. She’s was always funny. She was so sweet. Good bless the family and I know she’s flying high with the angels.
Cliff and Nettie Mitchell says
Walter, Bernie, Jeremy, and Josie both Nettie and I are so so sorry to hear of you mother (wife’s) passing. We have many fond memories of your family and wll be praying for your family.
Robin and Kyle Wolff says
We are so sorry. Brigette was my dear dear friend. We worked together alot and remained friends after she left the Friendship Villa. I’m going to miss our visits and laughs. I love you my friend.
Joan Leinwand says
Sending my condolences. Enjoyed working with Brigitte in Forsyth.
Jonnie Gilbert Taylor says
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for peace.
Deb Jerrel says
Walter and family… I am so sad to hear this news. She was one of my absolute favorites at the Friendship Villa and those residents loved her! Rest in peace dear friend…💔💔💔
Anne & David Boothe says
Walter – please accept our sympathies. You are in my prayers – I love her life story and sorry I didn’t get to know her.
Bill and Patti Webb says
Walter and family please know that you are in our prayers. It sounds like she touched many lives in a very positive way. We are so sorry for your loss.
Sincere condolences,
Bill and Patti Webb
Julie Wright Boulden says
My prayers and love go out to Brigitte family. Brigitte will be sadly miss she was a wonderful lady and great friend may she rest in peace.
Aaron & Brenda Kneeland says
We were so sorry to hear of Brigette’s passing. She was such a nice lady. Keeping the Harms family in our thoughts and prayers.
Diane M Welbes says
Bernie, Jeremy, Josie, Walt–May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through this sad time. My condolences to you all. Thoughts and prayers.
Garth Sleight says
Jeremy, Josie, und Familie,
Mein Mitgefühl für seinen Verlust.
Chuck Hannon says
So sorry to hear about your loss Walter. Letting you and your family know that you are in our thoughts. Charles and Robin Hannon.
Beth Ann Wiedeman says
Bridgette was a wonderful woman to gave so much to everyone. She is flying high as a angel in heaven.
Brenda Dotson says
My sympathies to you all. May your beautiful memories of Brigitte give you peace and bring joy to your heart. I enjoyed my time working with Brigitte at RHCC she was a kind person.
Kay Davis Berdahl says
Harms family,
Sorry for your loss. Condolences and prayers to you during this difficult time.
Susan Stabelfeldt says
My thoughts are with you all. I enjoyed working and visiting with Brigitte. She will be missed.
Jennifer Ferguson Johnson says
I’m so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Brigitte was a wonderful sweet lady, it was always wonderful when I got to see she and we would get to talking about working in the Nursing home. You will be missed.
Bobbi Ann Old Crow says
Walt and family sorry for y’all’s loss of Brigitte💔😭 I have fond memories of working with her at RHCC and I remember her sense of humor!!🌻 sending condolences and prayers🦋
Margo Hellickson says
Walter and Family,
I was so shocked to read of Brigitte’s passing. She was so fun to work with and had a special knack caring for residents in the special care unit. Whenever I would see her we would hug . She is now with her mamma and other family members and is probably busy talking in German. I shall miss our Facebook posts , and hugs when we would happen to see each other. My sympathy to all of you. She sure loved her kids and grandkids.
Jeremey says
I miss you momma. 😘
Hopefully someday in FAR future I’ll get to hug again.
Ich Leibe Dich