Gary L. Day, age 62, passed away due to a massive heart attack on February 12, 2013. He was born on January 3, 1951, in Park Rapids, Minnesota, to Alva Pearl Knowles Day and Leslie John Day. Gary graduated from Menahga High School, MN, and earned a Bachelor of Science degree in 1974 from Moorhead State College. He earned a Masters of Science degree in wildlife biology from the University of Montana School of Forestry and in 1981 a juris doctorate degree from the University of Montana School of Law.
Gary served as a Montana district court judge for the Sixteenth Judicial District from 1997 to the date of his death. Prior to serving as a judge, he joined the law firm of Lucas and Monaghan in Miles City, Montana, from 1981-1997.
He also served as president of the Southeastern Montana Bar Association from 1981-1988, as trustee of the State Bar of Montana from 1987-1997 and as president of the State Bar of Montana from 1995-1996. He served on numerous Montana Supreme Court commissions, including the Judicial Standards Commission. He had just begun serving as treasurer of the Montana Judges Association.
The greatest joy in Gary’s life were his three children, Justin, Catharine and Cole and his grandson William McIntosh Houstoun. He has a new grandson born the day he died, Carter Houstoun. He would have given anything to hold that little guy in his arms. The love of his life was his wife, Jo Ridgeway. Gary and Jo had a special closeness and enjoyed their days together in the field hunting birds behind their German Shorthaired Pointers, running Ridgeday Kennels of Montana, riding road bikes, reading, traveling in their EarthRoamer to field trials with their dogs and to Arizona to hunt quail. Life without you, my dear strong man, will never be the same. We love you and we cannot believe you have left us.
Gary touched many lives during his time on Earth. He had a keen sense of humor, a zest for living large, an immense strength of character and body, boundless kindness and a striking intellect. He had an intense interest in wildlife biology, hunting dogs, philosophy, history, sports, and the wellness of our Earth. Those who appeared in his court found a compassionate individual who cared about justice and who believed justice delayed is justice denied; therefore, he was prepared before entering the courtroom and most often ruled from the bench.
Gary was predeceased by his father, Leslie John Day and his son Cole John Mickelson. He is survived by his wife, Mary Jo Ridgeway of Miles City, MT; mother, Alva Day of Park Rapids, MN; son Justin John-Allen Day of Denver, CO; daughter Catharine Day Houstoun (Justin) of Scottsbluff, NE; grandsons William and Carter Houstoun; sisters Sandra Etter (Robert) of Side Lake, MN and Susie Renner (Jim) of Molalla, OR; nephews Terry Etter (Peggy), Jason Etter (Camille), Carson and Eric Renner; and many friends and colleagues around the state.
A celebration of Gary’s life will be held on Sunday, February 17, 2013, beginning at 2:00 p.m. at the Grace Bible Church with a reception following at the Miles City Town and Country Club on Sunday, February 17. Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home of Miles City is in charge of the arrangements. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting: www.stevensonandsons.com.
Should friends desire, memorials may be made to Montana Mental Health Trust, 2601 Broadway, Helena, MT 59601 or to the National Alliance of Mental Illness (NAMI), 616 Helena Ave. Suite 218, Helena, MT 59601.
Carolyn Kimball says
Jo how very shocking. Our hearts ache for this loss and your pain. We pray for your healing.
Gene & Vickie Schneidt says
Words simply fail us. Jo, our hearts are with you.
Fred & Gwen Wacker says
Jo, I can only begin to express our sympathies to you. We are so shocked and sorrowful for the loss of Gary. He was so gentle and kind.
Mike & Jacki Blum says
Jo, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Linda and Dale Marcil says
Jo, we are so sorry to hear about Gary, what a great guy, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shannon & Bryan Holmen says
Our prayer is for your hearts to heal. With deep sadness we think of you Jo and his kids.
Rose Timmons says
Glenn Balk and Rose.We send our sympathies to you and your family,We will Miss him especially when we came out to see all of your lovely dogs and new German Shorthair puppies. Thoughts and Prayers. Glenn and Rose
Julie Axelberg says
So very sorry for your loss Jo. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Connie & Ron Watts says
My heart breaks – we will miss him so much. He was truly one of the best – in every way. God speed, Gary!
Grant and Leah Miller says
To Gary’s Family, We didn’t know Gary personally but we know he was a very stand-up person. The judicial system lost a great Judge…..not to mention the loss his familt has endured. Our prayers to all of you. Grant and Leah Miller
Brad & Heather Schmitz says
Jo, We are so very sorry to hear of Gary’s passing. Hang in there, you have had a very challenging year. You are in our prayers.
Beverly Harris says
Jo, I am so so sorry. If you ever need a shoulder, you know where I am
John & Sharon Pachl says
Jo & family, We were so very saddened to hear about Gary. He touched the lives of so many in a positive way and will be greatly missed. You are in our prayers.
Denise Harvey says
Jo and family,
My heart is breaking for all of you. We are a better community having been blessed by your family and will miss Gary deeply. My prayers are with you in this loss and I pray for your strength and courage to be lifted up again. You are an example to all of us who care about and for you.
Kim Taylor Christopherson says
Dear Jo, I was so saddened to hear about Judge Day. I am so sorry for your loss. He was such a great mentor; always so gracious and kind when I appeared in front of him. That made such a difference to me as a new attorney. He taught at the Trial Advocacy program at UM in 2009 when I took the course, and he took special care to give the attorneys to whom he was offering critiques very honest and valuable feedback. He was the kinder version of Simon Cowell. 🙂 I thought so highly of him; he was the reason Jim Lucas came to Missoula to interview me in 1999, and so I will be forever grateful to him (and Jim and Lance) for making it possible for me to come to Miles City, start my legal career, and become a part of the wonderful Christopherson family. I am praying that God will give you comfort and peace of body and spirit during the difficult days that lie ahead. God bless.
Kelly and Cindy Radue says
Jo – We’re thinking of you at the time of your loss. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. Gary was truely one of the good guys.
Louise and Bill McChesney says
Jo,
Words can’t even begin to express how shocked and sorry we are for your loss. Gary was such a nice man. Our deepest heartfelt sympathies to you and your family.
Todd Devlin says
Jo,
You and Gary have been such wonderful friends and support during our losses this past year. Please realize that your friends expect you to call upon them for support and help. Remember that prayer will help. It is a powerful tool. May the Lord give you peace.
Dannette Cremer says
Jo, I am so sorry for your loss. I worked for Lucas & Monaghan between my years at MCC. I so enjoyed Gary. He always had a smile as big as ever.
Dave & Cheri Weidner says
The world lost an amazing man. My deepest sympathies go out to his family and friends. My first case as a newly sworn in Eastern Montana CASA/GAL was in Judge Days court. He was so kind and understanding through the whole case and took extra time to make sure I understood everything that was happening. He was a fair and just man, and the CASA organization will truely miss him. Thank You Judge Day for showing me that the role of a child advocate is truely something to be proud of! God Bless.
Cheri Weidner
CASA/GAL
Tim Stoltz and Franks Body Shop says
Jo, we all send our condolences and prayers to you. Gary will be greatly missed by all
Jean Jones says
I am so very sorry for your loss. May God wrap his arms of grace and loving care around you and all your family at this time. Gary was a very honest, fair, and outstanding man in our communiy. He was a great example for all of us and a superior leader.
Jean Jones and Family
Bill McChesney says
Jo,
My heart aches for you. Wish there were words sufficient to provide some ease and comfort. You are and will be in my thoughts and prayers. Your a wonderful person and I pray that you’ll find an inner source to help you through this tragic time.
Bill
Begley Family says
Our hearts and prayers go out to Judge Day’s family, friends and colleagues. He was a man of strength and integrity and exemplified what justice is and should be; he will be missed. God Bless you all!
Patrick, Elizabeth, Rory and Grayson Begley
Cindy and Dale Berg says
Garys Family,
Our hearts go out to all of you at this tragic time. No words can ease the pain, just know that so many people are praying for you now and in the difficult days ahead. He was a good man, and will be missed my many. God Bless.
Tammy Holmes says
He was the nicest, most kind man I have ever met. He literally saved my son from an uncertain doom and I will forever be grateful. Let his memory live on as his legacy. My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.
Mary & Fred Wambolt says
Jo and family…we are so sad to hear about Gary! We will be keeping you all in our prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help!
Tom and Robin Kiel says
Jo,
We are so sad for your loss. Gary was such a kind and fair man. He will be missed by so many. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Cherie LeBlanc says
Jo, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am stunned as many others are. Gary was a kind and gentle man who supported CASA and gave our volunteers the inspiration they sometimes needed to continue to advocate for children. Miles City and the Judicial Court system have lost a fine man. God Bless.
Misty Nelson says
Sending condolences, big hugs, and healing thoughts to all of Gary’s kith and kin. He was one of my favorite people ever – the gold standard of warmth and kindness. He will be missed.
LynneRae and Paul Hazelton says
Jo,
We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. There wasn’t a nicer more sincere person and his smile always brightened the day. He will be missed by so many. May God hold you in his arms as you go forward from here. Take Care.
Berta Cauthron says
Gary was dear to my heart–and was one of the finest. My thoughts are with those who knew him, loved him,and will miss him.
Keith Haker says
Gary was a great friend.I enjoyed visiting with him and practicing law with him and later practicing law before him. His untimely death stunned us all and his passing is a loss not only to the legal community, but this community as a whole.I was watching the Westminster Dog Show last night when a beautiful German Shorthair was shown.I thought of Jo and Gary then and wondered if they were watching the show. Ten minutes later I received the call advising me that Gary had died.He will be missed in many ways. Our sympathy goes out to Jo and his family.Keith Haker
Dawn (johnson) Steveson says
jo I am deeply saddened by your loss, Gary will be greatly missed..My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Kevin & Sheila Krausz says
Jo, we are saddened to hear about Judge Day, we pray that god will comfort you and your family in is difficult time. In my 20 plus years in Law Enforcement, I thought so highly of Gary,he was always a fair, kind and firm Judge when he needed to be. I was honored to have Gary administer the oath of office for me as County Commissioner December 31, 2012. I will have great memories of Judge Day. He was a good man, and will be missed by many. God Bless
Janet Klein says
Jo…When I heard this horrible news, I became numb…Gary was such a wonderful individual who always had a smile on his face, no matter what was in store for him in his legal work or in life. Memories of him will sustain the hurt that you must be feeling. Life is never fair in so many respects, but I think that it is true that God does take the young ones as he needs them in heaven to prepare us for our travels there. Know that many people are praying for you and you are in their thoughts, including us. Please take care and know you have many friends that you can count on in the day ahead! Hugs to all of the family…they always make a person feel better…
Ken and Vicki Hess says
Wishing you and yours all the best. Gary was one of the most honest and fair people we knew. He will be missed by all who new him.
Carole Carey says
I wish to express my deepest sympathy to all of Gary’s family and friends. As the former Clerk of District Court in Carter County, I knew and worked with Gary when he practiced law with Lucas and Monaghan and later as District Judge. I was in Miles City for his swearing in ceremony. Gary was always so nice and kind to those around him, and a joy to work with. He certainly will be missed within the Legal community. The 16th Judicial District lost a great Judge way way to soon.
Carol Hirsch says
My prayers and thoughts are with Judge Day’s family. He was always so nice and every time I saw him he would ask how me and my girls were doing. The community has lost a great man.
Eileen Terhaar says
Jo and family,
My heart aches for you all. What a wonderful man Gary was and what a privliege and honor it has been to get to know you both personally. Miles City has lost a very special person and what a positive impact he and you, Jo, have had in our community and lives. God carry you through this very difficult time. May God hold you close and send you His comfort during this tragic time. We are here to help in anyway we can. God bless yours and Gary’s family. He will be truly missed….. what a positive and lasting impact he has made on so many lives. My prayers are with you.
Todd Anderson says
Prayers and thoughts with Judge Day’s family. I had the utmost respect for him as a judge and a person.
Mary Ann Liles says
Dear Jo and family, We are so saddened to learn of Gary’s death. We feel like it was just yesterday we visited with him as you both prepared to take your motorhome to Arizona for a vacation. Gary would never pass by as he walked down Main Street without stopping to share a joke or a story with us. As we read these comments, we note the words, “kind and fair” in almost every post, and that is his legacy. He will be sorely missed by this community. You are in our daily prayers. May God bless you all. Jim & Mary Ann Liles
Eileen and Ralph McWilliams says
Jo and Family,
We were greatly saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. Our community has lost a good upstanding person. Know that we are sending hugs, and keeping you close in our thoughts.
Ralph and Eileen
Merry and Armando DeAnda says
Jo and family , We wish to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We am stunned as many others are. Gary was a very kind and gentle man. We will miss him. Your family and Miles City have lost a fine man. God Bless. We you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rhonda Raschkow says
I am so, so saddened by the news of Gary’s passing. I am the granddaughter of George and Lydia. For a short time, I believe you were neighbors to my grandparents. I pray for you tonight and wish you strength in the days ahead. From all the responses, I know that Gary was a man of great integrity. As a child, we don’t always pay attention to the greatness of our elders, but respect… May God Bless you, and maybe tonight he is with my grandparents smelling some fragrant roses the night before Valentine’s. My heart is with you, and I pray for comfort in all days to come.
Love,
Rhonda
Joan Monaghan says
I was shocked and saddened upon hearing of Gary’s death. Tom and Gary used to have great visits early in the morning at the office before the work day began. They understood each other very well. They must have solved many world problems. They shared numerous stories of their children. Tom was very happy for Gary when he became District Judge though he knew he would miss the morning visits. Gary was a good person, and Miles City was better from the time he lived there. Please accept my condolences at this difficult time. Tom and Gary were much too young when they parted this world.
Joan Monaghan says
I was shocked and saddened upon hearing of Gary’s death. Tom and Gary used to have great visits early in the morning at the office before the work day began. They understood each other very well. They must have solved many world problems. They shared numerous stories of their children. Tom was very happy for Gary when he became District Judge. Gary was a good person, and Miles City was better from the time he lived there. Please accept my condolences at this difficult time. Tom and Gary were much too young when they parted this world.
jim and Jane Dighans says
after seeing you the other day and the pain in your eyes I could see you were still struggling with the death of your son .Your suffering is so great and you will remain so fragile. I pray for a strength that is not given thru the world. Gary was a kind and sincere man who we will not forget.
Rick & Dee Abbott says
Family of Judge Day:
Miles City and Eastern Montana has lost a great man! We have been selected for jury duty in Judge Day’s court – as a judge acted with wisdom, fairness and kindness. You shall be sorely missed, Judge Day! Please accept our sincerest sympathies!
Rick & Dee Abbott says
Family of Judge Day:
Miles City and Eastern Montana has lost a great man! We have been selected for jury duty in Judge Day’s court – as a judge, he conducted himself and the business of the court with wisdom, fairness and kindness. You shall be sorely missed, Judge Day! Please accept our sincerest sympathies!
Bryan and Janel Larson says
Jo and Family
We are so stunned and saddened by the loss of Gary. He was a wonderful man. I will forever smile thinking about when he did our adoption hearing in MIles City. I don’t know who was more excited – us to be parents or Gary, because he got to hold and play our son after the hearing was done.
He was a soft hearted, caring and wonderful human being.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bryan and Janel Larson and family
Ray and Terri Schmidt says
Jo, Justin and Catharine,
We were so deeply saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. He was truly an amazing, kind and gentle man who will be missed by so many of us. I will always remember how wonderful he was when he was the judge for my CASA cases and how compassionate he was towards everyone in the Courtroom. I have heard many stories of children who were adopted and Gary would have them come up to the bench so they could bang the gavel and how thrilled the kids were. His wit, kindness and gentleness will be missed greatly. You are all in our hearts and thoughts during this difficult time.
Clara Jo Arneson ( Sikveland ) says
My thoughts are with you and family .. may all the wonderfull memories fill your hearts every day .. God Bless
Marcus Knowles says
Have many fond memories growing up with cousin Gary.
The deer hunting adventures with our dads. shocking oats. Family get togethers.
Karen Lundgren says
Gary will be missed greatly! By you, Jo, and by his friends, family, and the entire community. His kind presence, his sense of humor, his earnest work in the world: all our irreplaceable.
Aliceann and Scott Carlton says
There are no words to encompass this. My deepest condolences and prayers for Jo and all the family.
Kaylene Danielson says
My grandparents Lydia and George Raschkow were neighbors to Gary and his family. He was a wonderful man and such a great family. I am so sorry for the loss of a great man in the Miles City Community my deepest condolences and prayers to his family and friends.
Judge Don & Rosa Neese says
Jo, words can not say what you are going through right now. Gary was a great friend, wonderful person a fantastic Judge and will be missed by all. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
So sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolences to his family and friends..
Angela Wilber says
Hugs & prayers for you Jo.
Jeff Faycosh says
Jo
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids. Gary was a good and honorable man. I will miss the chats about the dogs trials and hunting updates. He was one of a kind he will truly be missed. He lived each day to each fullest. So very sorry for your loss.
Scott and Sue Jens says
Jo,
We are so saddened by Gary’s passing, I got to know Gary when I gave him one of my black labs, Nikki. He was so grateful, we visited a few times before we left Miles. Things like these are hard to understand, but our faith in God will pull you through it. Our prayers and hopes for you and your family go out this day.
Mary Schaefer says
Jo I am so sorry for the loss of Gary. He was such a nice man and a pleaseure to visit with whenever I got to see him. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Alan, Susan & Paul Glueckert says
Jo, we send our deepest sympathies. Paul has fond memories of your trip to the Beartooths many years ago. He learned a great deal from Gary and enjoyed the time with your family. We will pray you find peace after suffering such losses. TAKE CARE
Ed and Janet Young says
Jo, Justin, and Catherine,
Such a shock to hear about Gary’s passing. He was such a wonderful man and father. He was such a positive influence for everyone he met and every thing he was involved with. May all the thoughts and prayers coming your way offer you comfort through the following hours, days, and years.
Derinda Hazelton, Judicial Assistant says
To the Family and Friends of Judge Day,
Montana has lost a great man. We here in the 14th Judicial District had the privilege of working with Judge Day, and were so saddened to hear of his passing. We pray that God will wrap his loving arms around you all and you will be comforted in is difficult time. Judge Day was a good man, and will be sorley missed by all those in the judicial community that had the honor of working with him. Mrs. Day, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mary Catherine Dunphy says
Just as Judge Day’s life enriched our community by his presence, our community is diminished by his passing. He was a man of many virtues and integrity and will be greatly missed by all. Rest in peace, Judge Day. My sincere sympathy to his wife and family.
Frank and Pearl Lane says
Gary was the MHC coporate attorney from the time he came to Miles City until he became a Judge. No matter how serious I thought the situation was, he always had that twinkle in his eye to calm me down. I was truely honored when he ask me to write a letter of reference for him when he appiied to be selected as a Distict Judge. As a Judge he was fair, firm but yet compassionate. Gary’s head stayed the same size as a judge. I, for one, am going to miss ole “grizzly” a lot. Jo, may you find peace and solace in the fact that Gary was a one of a kind good and gentle man.
John McKeon, 17th Jud. Dist. says
Jo, Gary was a wonderful colleague, always willing to assist. Thank you for sharing him with us. The Judiciary Branch – and all of Montana – was truly fortunate to have had his wisdom, common sense and conviction to do what was right. Our prayers and thoughts go with you and family.
Nancy Pasha says
My heart broke when I heard of Garys’ passing. What a wonderful, compassionate and caring man he was. The abused and neglected children of Eastern Montana have lost a wonderful friend. He truly cared about the children in his court and when he did a final adoption it was a special day for him. I loved the fact that he ruled from the bench and noone had to wait for weeks to find out what was going to happen. He cared for the feelings of the people he was dealing with. He was a kind, loving man and he will be greatly missed.
Deborah "Kim" Christopher, 20th Judicial District. says
Even though we have spent the bulk of our lives on opposite sides of Montana, it was always a privilege to have either or both of Jo and Gary present at the various meeting we attended. Each of you shared an awesome smile and presence of competence and compassion. The Judiciary lost a great judge. Jo, while your smile may be dimmed a little for a while without the reflection, your courage will see you through. I hope for you that you have the surprising and incredibly rich moments my family shared as we coped with my mom’s loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family as you share this difficult time.
Jed C. Fitch says
Jo and Family:
My condolences and deepest sympathies. I so admired Judge Day (who he will always be to me). I cut my teeth as a prosecutor in his Courtroom. He was kind and fair, to me and to the Defendants. He was always prepared, and usually understood my cases better than I did. When a big-city lawyer asked why he took such time and care with each case, he said something like: “we do it differently out here, we do it right.” I despair at the thought of his passing, but I take heart in the knowledge that he lived an honorable and worthwhile life, and lived each day to its fullest. He truly lived a life of substance, and left a legacy to mark our own lives by.
Chris and Diana Elwood says
We are so sorry to hear of Gary’s death. Chris got to know Gary when he was a deputy with Rosebud County in the 80’s and early 90’s. He always spoke very highly of Gary. May God’s presence be with all of at the hard time.
James L. Arneson says
I am honored to have got to know Judge Day. A man of Intergity, Honor and Compassion. I am sorry for your loss, may God comfort you, always.
Gino Dunfee says
Jo: I am so sorry for your loss. I was really looking forward to seeing Gary at the Bench-Bar Conference (and hoping you would be there too). My heart aches for you. The legal community has lost a great man who I am sure was not ready to leave this world. May your memories carry you through until you meet again.
Rich Batterman says
Jo – I am so very sorry for your loss. I had the utmost respect for Judge Day on the bench and as a person, and I learned much from him. I always made a point of being prepared in his court because I knew that he would accept nothing less. Our profession has been diminished, but knowing Gary was a great privilege. If there is anything that I can do . . .
Lance Pedersen U of M Law School Class of 1981 says
Jo and Family,
My condolences, the Bench and Bar will miss him. He was truly a scholar and a gentleman.
Jan Munroe says
Dear Jo, please accept my sincerest condolences for your losses which have been many. My prayers have been with you and will continue to be. You have lost two fine men in the past year and your mom, that is so much to lose. May God bless you and give you comfort. Jan
Pete Helland says
Jo and family: Very sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Gary on cases where he was opposing counsel and in another matter a few years later when he was a judge. He was first-rate as both a lawyer and judge, and an even better person. Please know a lot folks are thinking of you and the family, and are sharing in the loss of a good, good man. God bless.
William and Nora Drummond says
James Joyce says it best. . . .”He lived and laughed and loved and left”
. . .and he loved you the most Mary Jo. May you find peace, love and laughter again.
Richard Harkins says
Condolences to all the family. Judge Day was a true and effective judge and will be missed by the bar. He was always fair and helpful in the few cases I had before him. We will keep you in our prayers in this time of loss.
TOM & TESS BRADY says
JO, THERE ARE NO WORDS TO COMFORT YOU I AM SURE, BUT KNOW THAT OTHERS ARE THERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED US. PLEASE KNOW THAT THE ENTIRE STANFORD COMMUNITY IS THINKING OF YOU. —GOD MUST HAVE WANTED AND NEEDED HIM MORE IN HEAVEN……
jim & Carol Jacobsen says
Dear Jo
Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers. Words just aren’t enough to express our deepest sympathy to you. May you find some comfort in knowing how much we care.
Sincerely,
Jim & Carol
Andy Hazen says
How very shocking when I heard about this from a friend back in Glasgow!!! I got the pleasure of working Judge Gary Day back when I worked with the state courts as their IT support staff. I left for Oregon and one thing I regret was the inability to play racquetball with him, since our schedules always conflicted. He will be sorely missed. Best wishes to his family.
John Huntley says
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Judge Day’s passing. My prayers are with his family. Judge Day was a very kind, nice man who very positively touched the lives and the community where he lived and worked.
Victor and Diane Emeney says
We are very saddened to hear of Gary’s passing.He was such a life loving individual his spirit would pull you along with him as he told his stories.He was my friend and a strong christian he will surely be missed.God Bless you all in this time of loss, you are not alone.
GARY AND PAT HELM says
JO WE WERE SORRY TO HEAR OF GARYS PASSING. HE WAS SUCH A HAPPY HUNTER. WE WILL MISS HIM AS HE WAS GOOD NEIGHTBOR. RICK AND BRYON SEND THEIR BEST. YOU TAKE CARE AND REMEMBER WE ARE HERE IF YOU NEED US TO HELP YOU. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOURS.
Dale Tribby says
Jo and Family;
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. What a great man! So enjoyed visiting with Gary when or paths would cross hunting sharptails on Devlins or pheasants on the Tongue River. Always enjoyed talking dogs and wildlife management. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
George & Maggie Holom says
Jo, We are sorry to hear about Gary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. It was an honor to know him.
Kent Koolen says
Jo
I was stunned to hear the sad news about Gary’s sudden passing, and I’m so sorry for your loss. Gary was a fine man and a pillar of the bench and bar, respected by all. He was lucky to have you as his soulmate and to have the joy and fulfillment you had together. May your memories of those happy times sustain you and give you strength. Our thoughts are with you.
Fred & Vicky Anderson says
Jo and family,
Words can not adequately express our sympathy for you and the family. Gary was an outstanding person who projected integrity and “class” in his every action. he will not soon be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Fred & Vicky Anderson
Dave Barnum & SummerField Place Apts. of Park Rapids says
We at SummerField extend our heartfelt sympathies to the Day family for the loss of Gary. We love (Mom/Grandma) Alva here and will help take good care of her in this time of mourning. We are praying for your family.
Ty and Valerie Jones says
Dearest Jo, We are so deeply saddened for your loss. You have been through so much this last year and I wish I could ease the pain. Please know that we are praying for you and I am holding you close to me in my heart. I am so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
John and Lorraine Watson says
Jo and Family, We remain shocked and saddened to hear of Gary’s passing. We feel honored to have shared his friendship. He was truly one of the best. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sally Hickok says
Jo & Family, I met Judge Day when he was President of the State Bar and I was in law school. He was so encouraging to me. Soon after he became a judge I began to practice in his court. He was a kind man, an intelligent lawyer, a fair judge, a wonderful mentor–I could go on and on. I feel very privileged to have known him, and I am so sad he is gone. He is a shining example of what many lawyers and judges, like myself, strive to be. I am so sorry for your loss.
Greg Mullowney says
My condolences to all his family and friends. Gary was a law school classmate. We lived a few blocks away from each other up on the hill in Missoula at that time, and became good friends. I always knew he would become a judge, but he always claimed to have no ambition to do so. I never doubted it. He was wise even as a young man, and helped me to understand many things beyond my comprehension in law school. I am so sorry to hear of his passing.
Marc G. Buyske says
I had the great privilege of serving with Gary on the Montana Supreme Court Sentence Review Division, discussing judicial matters with him at the Montana Judges’ Association meetings, and appearing in his court as a private attorney. He was a man of great intelligence, common sense and good humor. He was an outstanding judge and will be grealty missed. My condolences to his family.
Colleen Mansfield says
Jo…I am shocked and very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Colleen
Sharon Kearnes says
Jo and family, I am so sorry for your lost. Gary was a special man that over the years was such a support to my programs, as were you. My thoughts and prayers for comfort in this time of deep sorrow are with you and your family.
Jeff & Kristine Harding says
Jo and family,
Our condolences to you all. Like everyone, we were shocked to hear the news of his passing. Gary will be remembered by everyone for the many positive and happy things he did in this world. He impacted the lives from those young to old. Our boys even said,”He was such a nice guy to us”. He will be missed!
Jane Haker says
Dear Jo, I am very saddened to read of Gary’s passing. My heart is breaking for you and I want you to know that I am thinking of you in this very sad and tough time. If you are ever in Missoula, please come and visit.
Debra Gustafson says
Dear Justin, Catherine, Jo & Family,
We are still numb at the loss of your father, husband, son and brother He left a lasting impression to me of being a gentle spirit yet a person of great mental strength and fairness. I will always remember his smile and sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Big hugs to you all.
Doug and Pam Colombik says
Dear Jo and Family,
I was shocked to hear the news about Gary. He was a good friend for over 20 years and we talked often about hunting and the outdoors. Gary always asked how our kids were doing, he was always interested in hearing about them. He had a special place in his heart for children. I always considered him to be the finest judge around, and when it was my turn to be on stand during a trial I was always comfortable knowing that Gary was in charge and would do the right thing and make the right decision. We will miss him greatly. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Michael Hurly says
Judge Day:
I want to thank you for all the help you have given me in starting my career as a young attorney. Your thoughtful advice has helped me greatly and continues to guide me.
You will be deeply missed.
All my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Michael Hurly
Jan, Steve, Dax, Ali, & Drew VanFossen says
Jo, Catharine, Justin, and all your families: Word traveled to us about your tragic loss, and we wanted you to know that Gary will be truly missed. He was one of the first people we met when we moved to Miles City, and we always enjoyed our visits. We also have such fond memories of Catharine and Justin and our kids growing up throughout their school years. Gary will be remembered for his cheerful disposition and kind words of interest in others. We want to send our deepest sympathy and let you know you are in our thoughts.
Bob Sullivan says
Jo and Family,
My deepest sympathy and regards. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. My heart is heavy. i do not have the words to express the sorrow I feel. Gary was a great judge, lawyer, father, husband and all around person. I enjoyed so much our work together in the State Bar and will always remember the fun we had. We have lost a great person and freind. Gary will be missed but not forgotten. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob Sullivan
Carson Renner says
All my thoughts and prayers are with all the family and friends in Miles City. I am so deeply sorry that Uncle Gary has left us. He was such a great man and I will never forget the times we had together and the impact he made on me. He will be greatly missed and I will always remember him and celebrate his life as the happy, humorous, life loving, strong man he was. Take care of each other. All my love.
Love,
Carson
Elizabeth (Beth) Best says
Jo, I wish I had words that meant something. Gary was a wonderful, decent, kind human being. He was a great friend. One of the cool things about Gary is that you could become instant friends and pick up, years later, where you left off. Gary had a gift for making sure you knew he loved you. We know your pain is deep. We are all out here trying to help shoulder this pain. Deepest condolences.
Beth
Kristi Blazer says
Jo: You and Gary were the storybook relationship. I recall that, during your courtship, you would meet part-way between Missoula (where you lived) and Miles City – at The Grand. Treasure those memories. I am so shocked and saddened by your losses in the last while. Gary was quite a guy, as a lawyer, judge, and person. I wish there were words to say or deeds to do, to help you at this time. If there is anything, please let me know.
Curtis and Tana Whicker says
We offer our deepest condolences to the Day family. Judge Day presided over each of our family’s adoptions, and we have wonderful memories and photos from those happy days. We’re due to pick up our last child next week, and it saddens us to think that she won’t have a Judge Day “Adoption Day” photo in her album. May the Lord surround you with peace and comfort during these difficult days.
Diana and Bob Gordon says
Jo,
Our prayers are with you and family. Just recieved word of Gary’s passing, What a total shock. Gary was awsome in many ways. Our deepest condolences to you and family.
God’s Blessings to you all!
Jason & Andrea Sibble says
Jo,
We are so saddened by the news of Gary’s untimely passing. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. We feel so blessed to have known such an amazingly wonderful man. He will be missed by us and so many. Every time we look at our loving Bridger, we will be reminded of Gary and that huge smile he always had, and how he loved to talk German Shorthairs. We pray for you each and every day Jo.
Dan Sieckman and Beth Ikeda says
Jo, We send our warmest thoughts and love, for we have no words to convey the depth of our sadness on your behalf. Your loss makes us hold each other, and we know that the world has lost a fine and gentle life, a positive and caring influence, a scholarly mind, a generous heart. We are so so sorry.
Patty Schreiner (Gierke) Ward says
Sending deepest heartfelt empathy for you and your family Jo. Judge Day was a wonderful , caring man. Always friendly and smiling when he would come into M&H when I worked there. May God wrap you in arms and help you through this very difficult time.
Cindy Knowles says
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Day Family. Thinking of you Aunt Alva and cousins Sandra & Susan. May God bless you in this sorrowful time.
Marlene Knowles says
My deepest sympathy goes out to his wife Jo and his Children.
Thinking of you Aunt Alva and cousins Sandra & Susan. May God Bless you in this sorrowful time.
Mark Elliscu says
As others before me I was shocked to hear of Gary’s passing. I was fortunate to be a college classmate and co-worker of Gary’s so have know him for many years, although we had little contact in recent years. Please accept my sincere condolences and find strength in prayer at this time of grief. Always remember Gary’s huge smile – I certainly know I will.
Ginny and Mike Fischer says
Dear Mary Jo, Across the miles and the years, Mike and I send sympathy to you and your family. Gary sounds like he was a wonderful man and we are very sad for you. God’s healing is our prayer.
Ken and Kristi Stein says
Dear Jo and family,
There are no words that are enough to express the sorrow of your and the communities loss with the unexpected passing of Gary. I will always remember Gary encouraging me as we did the Fun Run at the Terry badlands. That will always be a very vivid memory for me because that was the way Gary lived his life, one of helping and encouraging everyone he came in contact with each and everyday of his life. Thank you very much for letting us share this wonderful man. May God Bless you and your family.
Eric Browning-Larsen says
I have fond memories of working with Gary at Paul’s Red Owl in Park Rapids, Minnesota where we bagged groceries and stocked shelves to save money for college. What a great guy! All best wishes to his family. I know it’s a tremendous loss.
george bousliman says
Jo,
Gary was the best of the best. It was an honor and privilege to have worked for him during the yer he was president of the State Bar. It was no accident that he chose to live and work in Montana’s badlands: he could have left an indelible impression on any other community or place of work. And, there’s no doubt in my mind that you will see those sparkling eyes again.
David and Sally Ann Chisholm says
Dearest Jo,
We are so, so sad, for you and with you. We did not know Gary, but clearly he was beloved by many. You are having to bear too much. How we wish we could shoulder some of this sad load for you. Please know we are thinking of you and sending you prayers.
Hassell & Bobbi Painter says
A friend and a good man. I will miss him.
Eric Renner says
Greatness comes when you are able to live by the principles that you believe in. Gary was an inspiration to me personally as I have never met anyone who could live so passionately and so principled in seamless motion with each breath and word. He left this world a better place by simply being himself.
Bruce Desonia says
To Gary’s family, I knew Gary during his school days in Missoula. He was a genuine, sincere fellow. I remember his humility and graciousness. I am sure he is deeply missed. May your memories bring you peace.
Roger & Bette Jeanne Bennett says
Jo,
We only met you once at Catherine and Justin’s wedding but enjoyed watching you and Gary dance. We hadn’t seen Gary in a long time but were always proud of all his accomplishments. He will always be remembered by all who loved loved him family and friends. Our deepest sympathy to you Justin and Catherine.
Garth Sleight says
Gary was the epitome of “The Honorable.” He was a decent and fair interpreter of the rule of law. What a devastation for him to depart much too soon.