On April 25, 2025 our world crumbled when we got the devastating news that our beloved son, brother, uncle, cousin and nephew had passed away.
Jeffrey “JT” Travis Craig Wilson, was born on December 1, 1979. He came into this world and immediately was the source of unconditional love that was so powerful and encompassing that it made everything else pale in comparison. With his head full of blonde curls, he was everyone’s favorite, “living doll”. There is a theory that he was a late walker because he never got the opportunity to try with everyone always wanting to carry him around.
He had the voice of an angel, scoring a perfect score at the State Music Festival singing “Ave Maria”. At his high school graduation he performed the song, “Imagine” by John Lennon, which was so fitting for the acceptance he longed to have amongst his peers. Music was a huge part of what made JT tick. Everything he did involved music in one way or another. His voice had this vibrato that you could feel in your bones—even his humming, which he was constantly doing. I think we all will miss the music that JT brought into our lives.
JT had this gift to make every person around him feel like they were the most important person in the room. He loved to tell people how fabulous they looked and gave such detailed compliments that you knew he was actually seeing you. His attention felt like the warmth of the sun on your skin. We believe he was so good at giving compliments because all he wanted in life was to be seen and accepted for who he was. This ability to make a person feel important was particularly felt by his mom, dad, sisters, brothers and his nieces and nephews. “Big Abu” and “Uncle JT” were titles he wore proudly and his family will miss his infectious energy immensely.
JT had a handful of career choices ranging from a gas station attendant, where he could get your windshield factory-level clean …to a server that was always making a lasting impact on the customers dining out. But his calling was being a hairstylist. Every person who sat in his chair talked about how he made them feel beautiful even before he started and once he was done you believed in your soul, that you were beautiful.
JT was a proud member of the Northern Cheyenne Nation and a 6th generation of Chief Dull Knife. He is flying over the Milky Way to meet his relatives on the other side. He was loved so dearly by all of his family and friends and will be sorely missed.
To honor our beloved JT, the family requests that those attending his services wear a color JT has either told you that you looked “fabulous” in or an outfit that reflects his rainbow personality. We would like to extend a deep, heartfelt thank you to all of the people in his life who have shown him love, compassion, guidance, direction and most importantly acceptance. Special thanks to his pallbearers and honorary pallbearers, in addition to Tim Dove, Thomasine Woodenlegs, Carlene Gondora, Sharon Small and his neighbor friend Sara Goetz.
JT is survived by his dedicated and loving parents, Calvin & Roxanna Wilson, his siblings Brittani (Jeff) Mahoney, Megan (Braydon) Sinclair and Chance (Hannah) Wilson. His nieces and nephews: Finley, Kanin and Archer Mahoney; Scottie Sinclair; Hendrix, Ellis and Roman Wilson. His special cousin Tempe (Jason) One Bear and her 5 children; Canzas, Kiana, Kennedy, Keilani and Roger Jr. His grandmother, Barbara “Marie” Wilson. His uncles and aunts, Jeff (Pat) Wilson and family; Wendy (Mark) Ciarrocchi and family; Tim (Renee) Wilson and family; Becky (Jeff) Andrade and family; Robbie (Ida) One Bear and family; Richard (Bridgette) Spang and family; Henry (OT) Thompson; Bitty Wick, Scott Williams and family; Lori One Bear and family; Merle (Maria) Big Head and family; Beaver (Jodi) TallBull and family; Patsy (Adrian) Foote and family; Bridgette Grendahl and family; Lynette Big Head and family; Juanita Spotted Elk and family; Patleen Stewart and family; Bunny (Panzy) Hiwalker and family; Kim Hiwalker and family; Naomi One Bear Partida and family; Jr Boy One Bear and family; Judy (Dean) Allen and family; Robin Spang and family; Kathy (Ronnie) Beartusk and family; Allan (Joleen) Spang and family; Francine (Rusty) Spang-Willis, and all the Wilson, Fisher, and One Bear cousins.
Our family is very large please forgive us if we did not mention your name.
JT is preceded in death by his Great-Grandmother Maggie Seminole One Bear, who he had a special relationship with; Great-Grandpa James One Bear; Grandpas Mickey One Bear; Willard Wilson and José One Bear; Grandmas Carol, Barbara and Phoebe One Bear, Dolly Hiwalker and Geraldine Fisher; Uncles Terry and Harry One Bear, Wayne and Charles “Chucky” TallBull; Aunts Carmie One Bear Williams, Henrietta “Hank” Bear; Cousins Waylon and Carla Big Head; Clayton and Carl Big Head; and Wade Gray.
Service Schedule
Mass of Christian Burial
10:00 AM
Saturday May 3, 2025
Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church
Lame Deer, MT 59043
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D. G. Littlewolf/One Bear says
It was a blessing to get to know you, JT! I’ll always be thankful for your openness and honesty during the era we were in contact. Your cheerful attitude and humor seemed to always prevail despite the immense waves lurking underneath, and I hoped they always would. You are Home now.
SHELLY HOLUM says
Sending Prayers to all of his family
Duane and Sue Allred says
It is a shock to hear about this, our children are supposed to out live us.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in the Wilson family!
Anonymous says
JT Your Physical Presence Here Will Be Missed Immeasurably. May The Memories Of You Ease The Heartbreak Of Your Parents. Prayers For All At This Time….ONEBEAR / WILSON….
Misty says
Oh, my dear one. My heart is broken to hear of your sudden passing. I was truly blessed to know you—not just as a family friend, but as someone whose light touched so many. You had a spirit that shone so brightly, even when you couldn’t always see it yourself.
Now we are left grieving, trying to make sense of a world without you in it. I’m praying for our family and all your loved ones, that we may find strength in one another, and healing in the memories of your love, laughter, and the joy you brought to our lives. Be at peace.
Chesa says
My heart is broken my friend. Prayers for your family. May peace find you. Always in my heart!
Brenda and Russell Dotson says
Calvin and Roxie we are so sorry for the loss of your son. May your memories of J.T bring you peace. Our thought and prayers are with you all.
Sharlene and family says
My sincere condolences to my sister Roxie and bro in law Calvin for the loss of your son JT. I pray Maheo will grant you love, courage and the strength to endure such pain that comes with the loss of a loved one.
John White (Albuquerque, NM) says
Roxie and Calvin .. My deepest condolences. My heart aches for both you an your family. Please know I am praying for you all. I am so sorry.
Amanda Gleason says
You are one of my favorite humans! you were such a real gift to this world. It’s a sad place without you. I can’t even believe it. love and prayers to the family. Words can’t express how sorry I am and sad this is. I will always cherish the memories.
Tom & Robin Shahan says
To all of the Wilson, Mahoney, Sinclair family –
We are shocked to hear of JT’s passing. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May your memories bring you some margin of comfort as you learn to navigate your new world without your beloved JT. His light will shine on through all of you. ❤️
LORI Cadwell says
So sorry for your loss.
Lori Melotz says
My prayers and condolences Roxie and Calvin!
Carrie Lou says
Awww Jeffrey— the world was a much brighter place with you in it. Until we meet again Nephew.
Roxie, Cal and family— Sending prayers, love and strength for the coming days. My heart aches for your loss. He was a very special man.
Chad Hooper says
Jeff was one of the most generous people I’ve ever known. His laughter filled our apartment and made even the hardest days better. May his memory forever be a blessing.
Julie Stephens says
Cal & Roxy, Brittani, Megan, Chance and families,
We are so devastated for you and your loss. Our minds can’t believe this has happened. Our hearts go out to you and with this terrible tragedy. Hold your loving family tight and remember all the good times with your first born baby. ❤️
George & Julie
Alicia Littlewolf says
I am so sad to hear about Jeff. He gave so much with his light, humor, and openness. Sending prayers and comfort for his family.
Corinna Littlewolf says
I am very saddened to hear of your passing, JT. I enjoyed reconnecting with you through Facebook in the last two years or so. I send prayers, hugs, and condolences to your family. I wish you well on your journey back home.
Jennifer stokes baker says
wilson family…im so sorry to hear about Jeff’s passing. I always enjoyed seeing his posts about life. he always lit up when he talked about you guys. he will be missed greatly. the world was better because of him.
Preston James Werner says
I Love you forever Jeff! All those years we spent together will be cherished in my memories. Say hello to my Mom and Dad!
Mary Rose Swan & The Swan Family says
I haven’t been able to find the words to express how much Jeff meant to me. My grief is a mere fraction of the grief that everyone he ever shined his light on is feeling. Jeff was a star, full stop. He was also an incredible artist, whether he was using hair, photography, words, or music as his medium. He loved to create beauty in this world, and I’m comforted in knowing that the beauty he created will live on. I’m sending so much love to the Wilsons, Sinclairs and Mahoneys.
Buggs and Loni Hartman says
Calvin, Roxy and Family:
We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all throughout this difficult time. May he RIP. Buggs and Loni Hartman
Bertha "Berdie" Brown says
Rosie and Calvin, my sincere condolences to you and family. I will include you both in my prayers.
Michelle and Merlin Magers says
JT was a loving, kind, artistic and gentle soul. Sending love, peace and healing energy to you, his family and friends.
Kelly and Duane Cole says
Roxie and Cal
We are very saddened to hear of your loss. It seems unimaginable to suffer the loss of a child.
Know you are all in our thoughts, prayers and heart.
With deepest sympathy ❤️🩹
Kelly and Duane Cole says
Roxie and Cal
We are very saddened to hear of the loss of your son.
It seems unimaginable to lose a child.
Know our thoughts and prayers are with you. ❤️🩹
Kelly and Duane Cole says
Roxie and Cal
We are very saddened to hear of the loss of your son.
It seems unimaginable to feel the grief of losing a child.
Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers ❤️🩹
Katy P says
Oh my friend. How I will miss our chance encounters and random text messages whenever “Hot Child in the City” was playing on the radio. The shenanigans while we were working in the salon were legendary. Watching Grey’s during slow days, you teaching me how to do the ultimate blowout with nothing but a blow dryer and a round brush. Letting me practice giving you straight razor shaves after barber school. I loved watching how your family loved you. How your eyes lit up when you got to be an uncle. You were a shining star in the universe and I will miss you.
James Jr. & Ann King & family says
Our hearts are with you, Calvin Roxie and family…. Prayers for your comfort.
Brian Leslie Hull and Family says
Calvin, Roxie & Family
We are so very sorry for your loss, we pray you find comfort in all your fond memories, during this extremely hard time. We are not meant to out live our children. Praying for you all, with love.
Mae Archambeau says
Families and Friends of JT, you are all in our prayers as he was a very talented young man that excelled in all he done. JT and his Uncle Harry seemed to be awful close from the pictures and working ranch work together, so maybe Harry needed him and came after him. Me and my mom (Jackie Small) send Hugs, Prayers and Condolences.Let us know if you need anything, we are here for y’all…
Larry & Joanne Schrupp says
Roxy, Cal & family,
Words cannot adequately express sympathy for the loss you are experiencing. Our hearts ache for you. May your faith sustain you. And may happy memories of JT provide solace. He leaves a lasting mark on all the lives he touches, especially yours.
Kelly and Duane Coal says
Roxie and Cal
We are very saddened to hear about the loss of you son.
Seems unimaginable to lose a child.
Yee are in my thoughts and prayers and dreams ❤️🩹
Jody Bird (aka Williams) says
I just now learned of your son’s passing. My heart sorrow with you all, having my own son pass on at a young age. Both of you, Roxy and Calvin, are very special people, as is your family. I will keep you all in prayer for comfort from Holy Spirit as well as His strength and peace on you all in the days, weeks, and months ahead. I pray your memoirs are joyful, and bring you the peace that passes all understanding. Have missed seeing you all over the past several years. In Father’s great love for us all, Jody Bird (Williams).
Susan Acton says
Sending heartfelt sympathy to your family. Parents should not out live their children.
Alice Jagiello says
So sorry for your loss. ❤️❤️
Russ Davidson says
Jeff was a terrific kid and an incredible man. He has a spirit that will live on. Those that loved him will carry a little piece of JT with us always. Hugs and love to all of you as you navigate this “new reality”
Micaiah Birdinground says
Micaiah Birdinground
Prayers for his parents and siblings. As well as all his friends and family. I will miss you buddy … You were always so good to me and I am deeply grateful for you in my life. I love you forever!!!!
Alaina Buffalo Spirit says
Roxie & Cal: My sincerest condolences, your precious son 💖 was a friend of mine 😢 💔 He was always so friendly and cordial. My heart hurts for you, sending you hugs 🫂 🤗 and blessings 🙌 🙏 ❤️ 💙 ♥️ 💜
Louella Nygaard says
Jim and I are truly sorry for your loss. May memories of Jeff comfort you and your family at this time.
Trudee says
My sweet cousin JT, every time I seen you, I was greeted by your big smile and infectious positivity. I’m so grateful for the years of laughter, amazing hair advice, and cherished moments we’ve shared I’ll treasure our memories forever. 🥹❤️
you will be missed
James Neal says
Calvin and family, I am so sorry to learn of the recent loss of your son. He was one of my friends who helped make a difference in my life! Prayers for everyone who feels his pain during this time of great loss!
Leedom Leider Peppers Family says
Thank you for always being a friend, your kindness, sense of humor and smile will be greatly missed. God Bless your family. You are all in our prayers.
Becky and Ray Ballew says
Roxy and Calvin we are both so sorry for your loss.
Lindsey Wertman says
We were softball orphans together and so many memories of sleepovers at the ranch! He always had a big smile and hug for me I will always remember his kind spirit and infectious smile!
Vickie Gunderson says
Roxie and family, prayers of comfort to you all during such a difficult time..
Chris & Dani Scheese says
I am so sorry to hear of JT’s passing. When I saw Brittani’s post on Facebook I couldn’t believe it was true. How could someone so bright and shiny have his light put out already? I can’t begin to imagine the pain you are all in, honestly I don’t want to imagine.
Our love is being sent to all of you from Oregon. JT’s light might not shine the way you are used to seeing it, but it is still with you.
Chris
Tina Mauer, Jim Campbell says
Our deepest condolences to all of you during this heartbreaking time.
Georgia Bement says
So sorry for your loss sending prayers and hugs 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️ RIP Jeffery
JB King says
My heart is hurting for your family. Sending condolences and praying for healthy healing for everyone. Ma’heo’o bless.
Rick Whitmore says
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Prayers to your family.
Dave Malloy says
Calvin, Roxie, and family, my heart breaks for your loss. Jeff was a wonderful young man. God bless you all. 🙏🏻
Andrea (Farr) Foxworthy says
Jeff always seemed to make sure everyone around him felt loved, appreciated and accepted. The loss of such a magnificent being is still so very hard for many of us to comprehend and will continue to be so for years to come. My heart goes out to his beloved family, to also include those who may not have been family by blood.
Catherine Whiteman says
Man, JT, you were a beautiful soul
I’m fortunate to have spent time with you and laugh! Oh we had so many laughs! I’m so glad that I told you I loved you often. ❤️ prayers for comfort to all of us that love you. I will always have your smile and laugh in my heart. Rest in peace now. Journey well to the next camp. My deepest sympathy to your family. I’m heart broken. Beautiful soul! You are going to be the brightest star in the galaxy!
Janice Breyer says
Roxie, Calvin and family.
We are all so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express our sincere condolences. May your memories sustain you during this most difficult time.
Janice, Lloyd and family
Kristy Torgerson says
Cal, Roxie and family,
We are so very sorry for the loss of your son. Lots of prayers and love to you all as you go through this tragic loss.
Neil and Wendy Dennehy says
Cal, Roxie and family, we are so sorry to hear of JTs passing. Your family is in our prayers during this difficult
Trisha Kellogg says
My friend! We spent hours laughing and talking and hanging out in choir. Even singing duets! Your bright energy and incredible sense of humor will be missed so much! You brought so much joy to people, Jeff! You are loved…then, now and forever my friend!
Misty says
So sorry for your loss!
Karla McDonald says
Oh my dearest Calvin and Roxy…. With all my heart I am so very sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your Son. My deepest condolences and sincere love and prayers for you and your family. I am here if you ever need to talk, I share this pain with you forever. I’m so sorry!😢
Shelly & Doug Cahill Family says
Our hearts ache for you as you navigate through the pain of losing Jeff. His memory will forever be cherished, and his spirit will live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him. We will continue to keep you all in our prayers.
Carol Ankney says
Duane & I are so sorry for your loss; of family & self. May God bless you all & help you on the road ahead. Continued prayers for all. RIP Jeff, watch over the ones you leave behind.
Chanda Spotted Elk says
Prayers of strength and comfort ….. Jeff is a Cady’s alumni where I worked with him. Awesome Kid with his REZBOY license plates. His bright light will be missed.
Cindra and seidel Standing Elk says
Seidel and I send our deepest condolences and prayers for comfort and strength during this most difficult time… May you rest in the arms of Jesus sweet man… and know how truly loved you are and what a special impact you made on the lives of others Jeff… forever heavenly angel… sincerely.. seidel and cindra standing Elk
Joe and Sheri Sukut says
We are so very sorry for the heartbreaking loss of JT. Please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers. ❤️
Amy Hayes (Petrusha) says
Deepest condolences. Jeff and I would bump into each other in Missoula, coffee places dance clubs. Just random and short lived but bright spots in my memories for sure. I am so sorry for your loss, a very sweet soul for sure.
Mandi (Reimers) Murtaugh says
Sending so much love to you all. I only have sweet and joyful memories of Jeff from high school–always a huge smile and full of joy. I’m so sorry for your loss of his presence here.
Joan Hantz says
Roxie and Cal,
So sorry to hear about Jeff. Always enjoyed visiting with him. He had an incredible smile and nature. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. He will be missed by many.
Amy Schmechel says
Oh, Roxie and Calvin, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May God hold you in His arms and comfort you even as He embraces Jeff. Hugs. Amy (Rusek) Schmechel
Diana & Robert McLean Jr. says
Prayers & Hugs for you, Roxy, Calvin & family. Jeff is a very close friend to our daughter, Olivia. May you have peace knowing Jeff is loved by many people. So sorry, we parents are suppose to go before our children.
Terry Currier says
So sorry to hear about JT passing. Sending prayers and deepest condolences to you Roxy and Calvin as well as your family!
Audrey Watson says
Calvin, Roxie and family,
My heart goes out to all of you during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the love of those around you and peace in the memories you hold dear.
Doug & Debbie Skiles says
Calvin and Roxie, Brittani, Megan, Chance and families,
We are so sorry to hear of Jeff’s passing. We remember his bright smile, laughter, musical talents and being a fantastic person. We enjoyed it when Jeff was at our home. He will be missed. We are thinking of all of you at this difficult time. Love, Hugs and Prayers from The Skiles family
Michele “Mikey” Watters says
Jeff, In my heart and in my mind you will always be playing by the dugout. You were a light in this world. May perpetual light shine upon you in the next. May you rest in Peace. And may your dear ones be blest with Peace.
Carla Murray says
Calvin, Roxie, and family.
It’s hard to put into words just how much JT meant to so many of us. He was the light in the room and the laughter we didn’t know we needed, whether you were spending time with him or simply passing by in a high school hallway. Thank you for sharing him with all of us. Sending all of the biggest hugs and so many prayers as you navigate the coming days, months and years.
Lori Gray says
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeff was such a sweet person. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Joseph Doran says
Wilson family and all who knew Jeff. I’m very saddened to hear of this loss. I have such fond memories of Jeff while growing up. Rollerblading and racing in his basement, horseback riding, learning to drive the International Scout on the ranch, and band of course. You will be missed.
Amber Ramsey says
Please know our thoughts, love, and prayers are with each of you. JT always made the people around him feel so comfortable. He will truly be missed!
Nola and Gary Parry says
Cal, Roxie, and family,
No one can ever prepare us for the loss of a loved one. Our hearts go out to you and pray for your comfort and strength. Cherish all the wonderful memories of JT.
Gary and Nola
John Cupit says
Calvin and Roxie,
I’m so very sorry to learn of your son’s passing. Many prayers for you and your family and all who loved JT.
Mike and Joy Enterline says
Roxie and Cal and family, this was such a shock. We can’t imagine what you must be going through. We send our deepest condolences and know that your memories will help you through this.
Chris / Colstrip says
Yes, JT touched our lives, too, in Colstrip, many years ago when he and my daughter Terra – were friends. We dubbed him – ‘Teddy Bear’ for the gentle spirit he had. What a lovely telling of his life. That will warm JT’s heart for years to come. May God be blessing him with eternal peace.
Lacy McDougall says
Jeff was the nicest sweetest person. I have so many fond memories hanging out with him in highschool.He also made my hair so beautiful . I will miss seeing all his wonderful posts on Facebook. He could always bring a smile to your face. He was such a an upbeat loving person .I am so sorry for everyone’s loss. There is a new star shining down on us.
Julie Maldonado says
RIP Jeff, darn it so young still. You will be missed, I’m honored I got to know u in high school always kind and always smiling and so friendly, u will be missed
Pam, Pete Simonich & Family says
Heaven mends the deepest wounds on Earth.
We are very sad to learn of your son’s passing.
We send our sincere condolences to the Wilson family.
Doug and Bonnie Oxford says
Jeff was an outstanding young man. He brought a lot of joy to the world.He will be missed. Treasure your memories and he will always be with you.
Judy Hayworth says
To the Wilson/ One Bear Family:
My love and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the support of your many friends, your happy memories of JT, and God’s peace.
Kris Bartholomew says
Jeff had the best smile as a young boy. Sending prayers to all of his family.
Sharon Small Family says
JT, I will forever miss all your hugs and funny stories we shared. You always had that sparkle in your eye and energy that I appreciated so much. Until we meet again JT❤️ love you
Condolences to the Wilson/Onebear family.
Jill Myers says
Praying for you all. Wishing you comforting memories in the midst of your sorrow. Psalm 34:18 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
The Verlanic Family says
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Roxie & Cal.
Jeff & Debi Benson says
We are so saddened to hear about Jeff. He was a friend of our daughter’s and we managed to run into him quite often after they graduated. He gave me one of the best haircuts! May the sweet memories you have comfort you and bless your life.
Roberta H Roth says
Roxie, Calvin and family So sorry to hear of your loss.
Anonymous says
My Condolences sent to Roxi a d Calvin…and from my understanding he was A Elk Horn Scraper, which made him a ELKHORN SCRAPER BROTHER🙏🏻
Jonalyn Brown says
I’m heartbroken to hear about your loss. JT was a bright light, full of energy, joy, and warmth. Even without knowing it, he brought happiness to so many of us and left a lasting impact on everyone who had the chance to cross his path. I’m holding you and your family in my heart during this unimaginable time.
Brett Ueland says
Sending love and courage to JT’s family and the crew at Johnny Carinos! I loved working with JT. He had the world’s BEST laugh! I will miss his humor and sassy sarcasm. He is a wonderful soul ❤️