We lovingly remember and honor Kamden Charles McArthur (commonly referred to as Kam, Kammy or Chum Chum), age 17, from Colstrip, Montana took his life Tuesday, October 14, 2025.
Kamden was born in Miles City, Montana on March 12, 2008. He grew up and attended schools in Colstrip including the Pine Butte Elementary School then was promoted in 2019 to Frank Brattin Middle School which he attended until 2022. He finished his freshmen year in 2023 at Custer County High School in Miles City, deciding school was not the best fit for him, he pursued family, friendships and dirt bikes. He worked at the family restaurant, June’s Bungalow from 2023 to 2025. Kamden found a best friend in his dog Kush who was just as energetic and full of life as Kam. His aspiration was to begin a career on the oilrigs, eventually working toward becoming a skilled tradesman such as a mechanic or electrician. He was trying to achieve a GED and driver’s license.
Kamden lived his life to the fullest. To know Kamden was to love Kam, everyone adored him. If you didn’t know Kam, you were missing out, he impacted hearts. Kamden’s heart and love was endless, his presence was felt by all. He was a jokester, so silly and hilarious. He knew how to make people laugh uncontrollably. Kam was unapologetically himself. He would bust out in dance and song. The louder the music the better, he always had headphones on or a speaker with him. Kamden wanted no one to be alone, hurt, sad, or suffering nor did he want to be alone. Kamden’s smile was contagious; it made others smile and brightened the room. Kam had a beautiful, pure soul, he cared for others more than he cared about himself, he would give the clothes off his back to help others showing the compassion he possessed. He was so kind and sweet. Kam’s primary passion was motorcross. He rebuilt and repaired his bikes, learning effortlessly and relentlessly. Kam enjoyed lifting, listening to music and spending time with family and friends.
Kam is survived by his mother, Blythe Anne McArthur, his brother Maki Mykel McArthur and his sister Mylee Nora McArthur, his grandparents June and Mike Esser, his uncles: Dalton and Ethan Esser, his aunt Vanessa Esser, his cousins: Xavier and Castiel Esser, Teigan and Violet Jones, and his father Kelly McArthur. He was preceded in death by his aunt Nikki Esser and his grandpa Kelly McArthur Sr.
Family will receive friends on Sunday, October 19, 2025 from 3:00-5:00 p.m. at Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home in Miles City. Funeral services will be held on Monday, October 20, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. at Grace Bible Church in Miles City. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting: www.stevensonandsons.com.
Service Schedule
Family to Receive Friends
3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m.
Sunday October 19, 2025
Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home
1717 Main Street
Miles City, Montana 59301
Funeral Service
11:00 a.m.
Monday October 20, 2025
Grace Bible Church
3505 Stower Street
Miles City, Montana 59301
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Bobbi Vannattan & Family says
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss of Kamden. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers as you navigate this very difficult time.
Bobbi Vannattan & Family
Lori Clark says
My heart and prayers go out to your family. My son always talked highly of you and your siblings. Gonna miss you kid. May you rest in peace.
Kimberly hicks says
So sorry to hear of the loss of such a young man. Hugs and love sent to everyone as this griefing time continues.
Bobbi Traub says
Blythe Ann, I am so so sorry for your loss. No mother should go through what you are going through. Please take some comfort knowing his Aunt Nikki was there to greet him at the gate. Sending all the love and hugs and prayers your way.
MARTHA Crandall says
My heart felt sympathy
Rob, Sherri & Braden Schneidt says
So very sorry for your family’s loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ginger McManus says
Blythe I dont know what to say… I am so sorry for your loss.. Kambden was a good friend to Cole… love and hugs to you and your family and all of the friends.. I am thankfull that you all have eachother..
Pam Menne says
Blythe —
My deepest condolences and prayers are with you, your family and friends. I have no words at this time, but please know that you are surrounded with love.
Deb Hunking says
Blythe, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a child is the hardest thing to have to go through. We are thinking of you at this most difficult time.
Deb Hunking
Trish Holmes says
We are so sorry to hear this about your son. May God help you heal and comfort you and your family at this time off your loss. We are here for you all, God Bless you all. Chet and Trish Holmes
Dnaielle Tofte says
Blythe, I’m sorry for your loss, we will say extra prayers for you and your family tonight.
Julie Stephens says
Blythe and kids, Mike, June, and family,
My heart goes out to you all with this unimaginable tragedy. Only God knows why, as you struggle to understand. Blythe he is a spitting image of you! Take care of each other and your family. “Thoughts and prayers” are not enough.
So very sorry for your loss.
George & Julie
Rosemary Cole says
Blythe I am so sorry for your family’s loss.
SHELLY HOLUM says
Sending hugs and prayers to all of the family… SO SORRY TO HEAR THIS. Stay Strong
Bryan & Shannon Holmen says
Our hearts are breaking for all of his family and friends.heres to wonderful memories.
Danette & David Olguin says
Blythe I am so sorry for your loss and my heart just aches for you! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Shelly M Beeler says
Dalton, you and all your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Wrapping you up in love in this unimaginable difficult time. Dalton, I’m a phone call or text away at any time.
Bob and Carolyn Traub says
Oh I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts break for all of you Blythe, Mike, June and families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.💔
Willowa says
Words can not take away the pain you all are feeling, but may it provide you some comfort and help get you through the tough days ahead. Blythe he looked so much like you. Blythe and kids lean on family and friends for strength. Hugs and prayers from my family
Willowa French says
Words can not take away the pain you all are feeling, but may it provide you some comfort and help get you through the tough days ahead. Blythe he looked so much like you. Blythe and kids lean on family and friends for strength. Hugs and prayers from my family
Davis Family says
He is in our hearts prayers always and forever. Love you Kamden Charles McArthur.
Nancy Fillafer says
Blythe, Mike, June, & family,
My heart goes out to you & your family during this difficult time.
Kevin and Lori Donnelly says
Sorry to hear of the hard times that your family is going through. It may be hard to believe it in your time of need but God is by your side. If you need anything that I can help you with let me know. Will keep you in my prayers.
Niki Munroe says
I am so very sorry, my heart is aching for you all! Please know you are in my thoughts.
Jeff and Linda Hamilton says
Blythe, June, Mike and family. I’m at a loss for words. Please know that we are lifting you all up in prayer and love. May you hold him close through all of your precious memories.
Denise Harvey says
Such a beautiful tribute to Kam! It is truly him! My heart aches for you all! He loved deeply and he is deeply loved.
Ann Gunnare says
Thinking of the Esser family and especially you, Blythe.
Roxie Davis says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to your family.
Vanna Lancaster Byrd says
June, Mike and Family,
My deepest condolences on the loss of Kamden. Remember “When a loved one becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure.” (Author unknown) Kamden will always be a treasure for you all.
Vanna Lancaster Byrd
Doug & Debbie Skiles says
Blythe, Maki, Mylee, Mike and June, Ethan, Dalton and families
and Kelly,
We are so sorry to hear about Kam’s passing He was always such a fun, happy boy when he was growing up. He was always busy and loved his music. We remember him well from when he was little and growing up on our street as neighbors. Kam always had a smile on his face. Kam loved his family and friends so much and always loved his pets. We are broken hearted about Kam.
Love, Hugs and Prayers, Doug & Debbie and Callie
Charley and Debbie Fake says
Bythe and Kye and Mylee and June and Mike and rest of family
Our sincere condolences to all.. he is missed… our camping memories are wonderful!! He was always making us laugh!!
Hugs and Prayers 💜🙏🏼
Kerry & Dorothy Thomason says
Thinking of all of you, hugs and prayers . This is a hard time for your family hold on to each other and remember all the memories you made together. Love you all .
Bonnie J Dickinson and Rachel says
So sorry for your loss!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Jen, Eric, and Hayden Petritz says
There are no words for such a loss. Praying for you all.
Judy Sessions says
Blythe, my heart is with you and your family. Kamden was a guy who was full of life and fun. I pray for you to be comforted.
Georgia bement says
My heart and prayers go out to all of you , love you all very much🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️
Kim & Vicki Mees says
Words cannot express the sorrow that is shared over the loss of your son, brother, grandson and friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, now and in the days ahead. Kim and Vicki Mees, Phyllis Olson.
Warren and Rashell Scheeler says
Blythe and family~
Warren and I are heartbroken to hear of Kamden. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lynn Mcarthur says
Words cannot express how sorry I am, he was such a beautiful kind person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Love, Lynn
Rebecca Gookin & Matt says
You are in our thoughts and prayers Blyth and family.
So very sorry for your loss..
Cathy and John Frank says
Blythe and family, we are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
S says
Dear McArthur family,
I’m an 18 year old who dropped out of Highschool myself, and I remember when we first attended school in miles city and he was in the same small classroom we had, I remember Kamden as a bright, funny, kind, and cheerful kid, he was always smileing. Nothing I can say bad about Kamden, I hope he finds his way home, and I wish the best for his family. LLKM🕊️🌸🤟🏼
Wendy says
Blythe,
My heart breaks for you during this difficult time . You are a strong woman with lots of love by your side. Sending lots of prayers for your family.
Wendy Dennehy
Jackson Craig says
With Sympathy to Blythe and family, Gone from our sight, But NOT from Our Hearts. May you find comfort in knowing that others are holding you close in their hearts during this difficult time. In this time of sorrow , know that you are not alone. “Yea, thou dost light my lamp; the Lord my God lightens my darkness.” Psalm 18:28 You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Chris. J Gierke says
Keeping you & your family in our thoughts & prayers.
So sorry for your loss. May you have comfort from family & friends. Hugs & prayers to you all. God Bless! 🙏
Linda Wolff says
I am so sorry to hear about Kam, Blyth and June you and your families are in my prayers during this extremely difficult time.
Candy Laney says
We were so deeply saddened to hear of Kam’s passing. Please accept our heartfelt condolences during this incredibly difficult time.
While words can never fully express the sorrow we feel, we hope you find some comfort in knowing how many lives Kam touched with kindness, strength, and spirit. His memory will live on in all who knew him.
As Helen Keller once said, “What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” Kam will always be a part of your hearts, and his love will continue to surround you in ways both seen and unseen.
Wishing you peace, comfort, and moments of healing in the days ahead.
With sympathy and care,
John and Candy Laney
Bob and Joleen Edwards says
McArthur and Esser families,
Our heartfelt condolences to all of Kam’s family. We didn’t know Kam personally, but as lifelong friends of his Grandpa Mike, we are not surprised to read about all of Kam’s amazing qualities. Our prayers are with all of you.
Elaine Shipley says
Blythe and family,,there are really no words to express this kind of sorrow..keeping you all in my prayers..I’m so very sorry for your horrific loss…Lainey
Chandra says
Blythe, Maki, Mike, and family.. I am SO sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine your pain right now. Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers!!
Lots of hugs.