Kay was born in Le Mars, Iowa on September 25, 1941 to Melvin (Watermelvin) and Bertha (Bert) Hathaway. She was the oldest of 4 children. She spent her childhood years in Glendive, MT and Denver, CO before moving to Miles City at the age of 12. There she attended Sacred Heart school.
After graduation, she went on to attend cosmetology school starting in Billings, MT and finishing in Miles City. She was the first to graduate from June’s Beauty School. Shortly after that she married the love of her life Jack “Jackie” Fiechtner. They went on to have 4 children of their own Brenda, Melanie, Mark, and David. Kay loved her children with all of her heart and was truly devoted to her family. She enjoyed raising her children, being a hairdresser, and spending time with family and friends of whom included Ann and Bill Stegall, Patty, Sharon, Helen, and many others.
Over the years Kay had many fun times at Spotted Eagle, playing the machines (crazy cat lady), attending her kids and grandkids’ sporting events, planting flowers, doing crafts/ceramics/sewing, and adding to her Elvis collection. She was heartbroken when Elvis passed away. She also enjoyed watching her grandkids, taking naps, and a good cup of coffee. She was a devout Catholic and her love for God carried her through her final days.
Kay mourned the loss of her son Mark in November of 1985. She is now smiling down on us from heaven with Mark, her parents, and other loved ones.
Kay is survived by her children Brenda (Cliff), Melanie (Buddy), David (Jody); her grandchildren Addie (Paul), Stephanie, Garrett, Walker, Carson, Kylie, Reid, Trace; and her great grandchildren Harper, Kroy, and Sloane Kay. She is also survived by her siblings Jim Hathaway, Ron (Ginny) Hathaway, and Mary Anne Hathaway. Her extended family includes Heather Johnston, Ryan Oddy, Jason Oddy, Chelsea Oddy and children, and special friends Linda Kay O’Neill, Lucetta Wolfe, Kay Weischedel, Darla Parker, Vida Fischer, and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and uncle.
Kay is preceded in death by Melvin and Bertha Hathaway, her son Mark, nephew Scott Hathaway, Grandson Colton Florey, Sister-in-law and friend Diane Hathaway, and in laws Lyle and Daphine Fiechtner.
A special heartfelt thank you goes out to Hearts and Homes assisted living as well as all of the individuals in Hospice care and Lincare.
Family will receive friends on Friday, January 3, 2020 from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home followed by a vigil service at 6:00 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, January 4, 2020 at 10:00 a.m. at the Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Miles City. Rite of Committal will follow in the Calvary Cemetery. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting: www.stevensonandsons.com. Should friends desire memorials can be made to the local Miles City Food Bank or Soup Kitchen in Kay’s Name.
Service Schedule
Family to Receive Friends
4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Friday January 3, 2020
Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home
1717 Main Street
Miles City, Montana 59301
Vigil Service
6:00 p.m.
Friday January 3, 2020
Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home
1717 Main Street
Miles City , Montana 59301
Funeral Mass
10:00 a.m.
Saturday January 4, 2020
Sacred Heart Catholic Church
120 N. Montana Ave.
Miles City, Montana 59301
Service Schedule
Family to Receive Friends
4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Friday January 3, 2020
Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home
1717 Main Street
Miles City, Montana 59301
Vigil Service
6:00 p.m.
Friday January 3, 2020
Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home
1717 Main Street
Miles City , Montana 59301
Funeral Mass
10:00 a.m.
Saturday January 4, 2020
Sacred Heart Catholic Church
120 N. Montana Ave.
Miles City, Montana 59301
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MARTHA CRANDALL says
My sympathy
sandy and Pat Anderson says
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Will keep you all in my prayers.
Becky Gergen says
Sorry to hear about Kay. Kay was a member of our Bunco group and the month of December was her month to host the group at her house. She always played good Christmas music while we were there and served a wonderful meal to all of us. We miss her. Sympathy to all her family.
Myrna and Junior Perkins says
Sincerest sympathy to all Kay’s family. Peace to you all.
Darbie Karch and family says
So sorry to hear of Kay’s passing. She was a neat lady. Heaven gained another special angel. Rip Kay!
Linda Walker says
To Kay’s family: Thinking of you.
Dolores Meidinger Willson says
Thinking about you Brenda, Dave and all the children and grandchildren who have suffered a great loss. May you all be comforted in the many memories of your Mom, Grandmother and Great Grandmother. My sincerest sympathy.
LaRae Tangen says
I’m so sorry for your family’s loss at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Donna Leitholt-Taylor says
Brenda, Melanie, Dave and families; so sorry to hear this. Your mom was one of nicest people I have ever known. I am sure she is happy to reunited with Mark. They will be watching over all of you.
Karen Morris says
With deepest sympathy. May your happy memories provide you with comfort and peace in this time of loss. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Doug and Lucy Benge says
Condolences from Lucy and me to all the Hathaway family, and especially our special friends, Ron and Ginny. We are not ready for members of our generation to be checking out just yet. Best wishes to all.
Doug and Lucy Benge says
Condolences to all the Hathaway family, especially our special friends, Ron and Ginny. We are just not ready for members of our generation to be checking out yet. Best wishes to all.
Denise Harvey says
She will be missed. Her legacy will live on in all the lives she touched. Prayers and thoughts with you all.
Pam Beardsley says
Brenda and family,
Your Mom was an awesome lady and I am very sorry for your tremendous loss. May God comfort you all during this difficult time in your lives. Her memory will live on through her amazing children and grandchildren each and everyday. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cora Christopherson & Tracy Steinert says
Dear Brenda, Melanie & David and the rest of the family. We are so sorry for the loss of your mother, grandmother, aunt and friend. Our hearts and prayers are with you during this time of loss. Her memory will carry om through all of you
Doug and Diane Ellingson says
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
TJ and Tana Kiel says
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family
Kim Stanton says
Dear families,
Peace be with you as you mourn the loss of a beloved lady, while celebrating her life and the love she shared with so many. Sending our thoughts and prayers of condolences to all of you.
With Sympathy,
The Kim Stanton family
Kathy Ugrin says
So sorry to hear of your loss. Kay was a very special person who gave of herself to many. She will be missed.
Sending our thoughts and prayers to all.
Kathy and Greg Ugrin
Kevin and Sheila Krausz says
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.
Ray and Sheri Clauson says
We are so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with Kay’s family.
Tina Sticka says
Brenda, Melanie, and David,
I am so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. She was one of the kindest women I have ever had the pleasure to know. My deepest sympathies for you and the rest of the family.
Norma says
My sympathy to all of Kay’s family. She was the matriarch and filled the role perfectly. She always had a gentle smile and a soft word for everybody. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this time.
Achie & Bonnie LaRoque says
Sending our thoughts and prayers for all of Kays family.
Kelly and Dulcy Hubbert says
You are all in our many thoughts and prayers.
Jo Meidinger says
My deepest sympathy Allows enjoyed coffee with her at Daphine house She will be missed.
Cindy & Dale Berg says
We are so sorry for your loss. Kay was a neat lady and will be missed by many.
Thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
JR & Carol Bean says
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of your mother. Losing a parent is like losing a part of you. Hold your memories near and dear.
M G says
When someone we love fall asleep in death the memories we have of them become our treasure. So take time to grieve and find comfort in knowing that God is near all those calling on Him. Psalms 145:18. My condolences to the family.
harper says
I miss you so much grandma i wish you were still here giving me jello and whipped cream mixed together i have so many memories with you you made my life better but now you have been gone for a whole 4 years, i love you 🙁