Ross Alcott Parker Sr, was born into this world to Jennie Seminole Parker and Shirley Ross Parker, on May 31, 1960, at Crow Agency. Ross’s Cheyenne name was Big Spider Max’veho, he was named after his grandpa. He was the oldest out of his
siblings. Growing up Ross liked to ride horseback and go fishing. He attended St. Labre school where he met his friends who became brothers and enjoyed playing football and wrestling.
Ross was part of the IAP, Indian Action Program, in Butte, MT where he stayed for a couple of years. At such a young age Ross was initiated into the Kitfox society, which he was very proud of, and enjoyed teaching his sons to practice his traditional ways of life. He was a sweat keeper which was given to him by his grandmother. For many years he was an integral part of The Little Bighorn Ride and he enjoyed teaching his children about the importance of the history behind it.
Ross grew up on the family ranch also known as Parker’s Poor Farm, which is where he learned the value of hard work himself. Ross was blessed with four children of his own, which he passed these values onto, along with many others.
He was an avid outdoorsman, he loved teaching all his kids how to hunt and fish, along with anyone who was willing to learn. His love for the outdoors was one way he brought his family together, whether they wanted to or not. This love also extended into his employment, such as firefighting, Blackfooted-Ferret Research Program, and bringing the buffalo out of
Yellowstone back to the tribe. Ross was a skilled carpenter, and worked for Northern Cheyenne Tribal Housing for many years.
In later years, he was blessed with two granddaughters, Kara and Sharlyce. He enjoyed
spending time with them and watching them grow. In the most recent years, he was blessed with six granddaughters, the twins, Maddison and Maci (little blue eyes and Raerae), Rosslynn (Rossi), Kami (Tinks), Kayleigha (Kiki), and Hopelynn (Hopes), and two great grandsons, Keltyn and Karson, most recently a new grandson, baby Rocky. His grandchildren and great
grandchildren were the light of his life. He especially enjoyed playing tricks on them or teasing them to get them to giggle or smile. His favorite trick was pulling the candy from behind the ears. He enjoyed sharing candy and pop with them, even when mom said no. He attended all sport Festivities’ when he could to show all his encouragement and love.
His disabilities did not inhibit him from helping people or working in the outdoors, such as chopping wood, which he enjoyed. Ross also took care of his mom for many years, until she moved to the heritage.
When he wasn’t in the outdoors his favorite pastimes were arm wrestling and Bowling League. During Ross’s Pool playing years he joined Pool League, where the Pool Community became his family. He enjoyed the rivalries and competition from everyone. He especially
enjoyed trying to beat his sister Flora “The State Champ” whom he was proud of. Ross would
always encourage others and give pointers. He sure loved his “Pool Family”. We could share so many stories about our dad, as I’m sure you all could too. He lived a good simple life.
The Family would like to thank Morris Bement Jr, Northern Cheyenne EMS, the IHS, the Medical Staff at St. Vincent, especially his ICU nurse Madison. I would also like to thank everyone who loved my dad and took care of him throughout his years and those that were with him in these past few months. He loved each and every one of you. To us you will always be
The Man, The Myth, The Legend “Papa”. We love you dad, and we will miss you. We find comfort in knowing that you are with your sons and everyone else who passed on before you.
Ross has many family and friends too numerous to mention by name, but you all know who you are and the special place you held in his heart; always remember he loved you all.
Service Schedule
Traditional Wake
7:00 PM
Friday December 2, 2022
Rabbit Town Hall
Rabbit Town, Montana 59003
Funeral Service
11:00 AM
Saturday December 3, 2022
Rabbit Town Hall
Rabbit Town, Montana 59003
Interment
Following the Funeral Service
Saturday December 3, 2022
Parker Family Cemetery
Ashland, Montana 59003
Service Schedule
Traditional Wake
7:00 PM
Friday December 2, 2022
Rabbit Town Hall
Rabbit Town, Montana 59003
Funeral Service
11:00 AM
Saturday December 3, 2022
Rabbit Town Hall
Rabbit Town, Montana 59003
Interment
Following the Funeral Service
Saturday December 3, 2022
Parker Family Cemetery
Ashland, Montana 59003
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Susan Parker Swanz says
Ross, May the creator Bless you! All of our loved ones are awaiting your all to EARLY arrival. Hug them for us.
Peace be with all of your beloved family and friends during this time of grief.
Most Sincerely,
Susan Parker Swanz
Sue Parker says
Condolences to Jennie and all the family.
Carrie Littlebird says
Ross, My prayers always. Rest in Paradise. I’m going to miss you. My Condolences to you and all your loved ones. Thank you for everything you did for me.
Michele Eaglefeathers says
I’m so sorry Trish. My condolences and prayers are with you and your family ❤🙏
Cousin Mona says
Ross, may your journey home bring stars to your eyes and a smile to your soul.
Michael S Speelman says
RIP “Roscoe P…” My Big Brother my friend, I was a Blast growing up with the Poor Farm Crew on the Tongue River. We worked Hard Everyday!
Played harder every chance we could. I have Great memories of these times. What a Crazy Bunch youngsters, we were. I Wouldn’t change a thing. I was a Great past full of good life lessons. Im Proud to have been a part of these times. Rest in Peace Big Brother….
Mary Dillon says
Sending my sincere sympathy. Your family is remembered in my prayers.
Mary Dillon
Pamela J Spang says
So sorry for your loss Jenny, Leroy and I want to know our hearts go out to you.
Karen Locher says
Sending my condolences to the family. Karen and family
Lorraine Waters says
Sending my sympathy to family and Jennie for their loss. He was a big, strong, burly man.
Sharlene’ says
Very gracious man, glad I got to know him briefly…rest I prace Ross
Deana peters says
Prayers for Jenny, Flora, Michelle and Mutt and his children I’m so sorry for his passing all the memories of school and all the years after. L
Glenn Tallwhiteman says
Miss you,Ross. I have always had the utmost respect for you and always appreciated the time you took to share your life experiences and knowledge about this, that,and the other thing you enjoyed talking about. You were one of Randy’s closest and favorite people to be around, and one of mine also. I will never forget that pic you showed me (at Randy’s wake) of you , Steven, Randy, and myself sitting all in a row on our bicycles way,way back when. Four super cool dorks! Lol! RIP, Ross……Love you,cuz!