Tim Harley Wildman
On Friday, May 6, 2022, Tim passed away peacefully with loved ones by his side at Riverstone Health Hospice Home in Billings, MT. Tim was 66 years old.
Tim was born in Miles City, MT on July 14, 1955. He was the third child of Harley Wildman and Evelyn Myran. In 1959, Evelyn married Mencel Carey of Kinsey, MT and they moved the family to the Kinsey farm. Tim was blessed to grow up in the country with his aunts, uncles, and cousins. Mechanically inclined and curious by nature, he spent many of his early days taking apart and reassembling anything he could get his hands on. Tim loved the country, it’s freedom and solitude, and the wide-open spaces where he rode his favorite horse Chico.
In 1969, the family moved to Miles City. There, Tim attended high school and worked at the A&W and MAC’s Frontierland. He started working at UPS in 1978 and retired in 2010, after 32 years of service to the communities of Forsyth, Miles City, Colstrip, and Terry. These communities loved “The Wildman.” Tim was loud and funny and had a remarkable ability to connect with people. His energy, boisterous laugh, and willingness to go above-and-beyond for anyone made him a local celebrity.
Tim was married to Peggy Jo Callaghan from 1980 to 1983 and from that marriage came Travis and Tiffany. Later, on February 12, 1988, in Forsyth, MT, he married the love of his life Cynthia (Faist) Wildman. Tim and Cyn joined the families at Pine Hills Estates outside of Miles City. Tim loved it there, the pine trees, the quiet, and the big blue skies. Tim loved spending time with his kids, Travis, Tiff, Kit, and Cara. A short trip to the gas station or a visit to the Dairy Queen drive-in for a blizzard would have them all piled in the truck for an afternoon adventure. Tim always found time to ride motorcycles, hide easter eggs, practice at the shooting range, fly kites, and pull the kids around on an old car hood in the snow. He especially enjoyed taking his kids hunting. It was easy to tell when he got one because the entire county could hear the echoes of him gagging as he attempted to dress the deer.
In 1992 Tim and Cyn moved the family to Forsyth, MT. Tim was a hard worker and never backed down from a challenge. He worked long days at UPS and then would work more hours in the evening at the family grocery store. Tim instilled in his kids that taking risks is always worth it and even when things don’t go your way there are lessons to be learned. He would say, “You finish what you start” and those words imparted a strong work ethic and perseverance during tough times. Tim was generous and made many donations over the years to organizations that served the community. He also passed out cheeseburgers to the occasional hitchhiker on his delivery route.
Tim was a teacher. It was important to him that his kids knew how to take care of stuff, especially their cars. He spent countless hours working with Travis on his Malibu. When Tiff got her first car and the engine blew up, Tim found a new one and spent nights and weekends helping her rebuild the car. He was a wheeler-and-dealer. Tim could find anything—a part, a tool, even a tractor—whatever was needed for the job. It wasn’t unusual for him to show-up in the evening driving an old car that he bought from some guy for $100 and some firewood.
During retirement, Tim enjoyed the simpleness of watching a great movie, laughing with Cyn, and playing with his dogs.
Tim was preceded in death by his father Harley Wildman and stepfather Mencel Carey, along with his brother Randy Wildman, sister-in-law Leslie Wildman, brother-in-law Bubba Smith, and first wife Peggy Jo Callaghan. He is survived by his loving wife Cynthia Wildman, son Travis Wildman, daughter Tiffany Wildman, daughter Cara (Chalberg) Cook (Nate), and son Christopher “Kit” Chalberg (Amberly). He is also survived by five grandchildren Kaitlyn Wildman, Keagen Wildman, Anderson Cook, Iris Cook, and Lillee Wildman, his beloved dogs, Hans and Koby, as well as his mother Evelyn Carey, brothers Clint Wildman and Dallas Wildman (Linda), sisters Cindy Smith, Stena Bushnell (Jim), Mencella Carlson (Kelly), Becky Murnion (Dixon), Carol Finneman (Terry) and Rosie Moats (Dick) and his aunts, an uncle and many nieces, nephews, and cousins. He will be deeply missed.
The celebration of life is scheduled for June 25 at 2pm at Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home in Forsyth, MT. In lieu of flowers, donations to Saint Jude’s Children’s Hospital are encouraged.
Service Schedule
Celebration of Life
2:00 p.m.
Saturday June 25, 2022
Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home
245 Westwind Lane
Forsyth, Montana 59327
Service Schedule
Celebration of Life
2:00 p.m.
Saturday June 25, 2022
Stevenson & Sons Funeral Home
245 Westwind Lane
Forsyth, Montana 59327
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Chuck and Sue Nissen says
Travis, Cindy and all of Tim’s family: Oh my, what a shock..so very sorry to learn of Tim’s passing. He was the most pleasant UPS driver on the planet in our opinion. You are in our hearts and prayers and we share in your sorrow. Your memories will keep him alive on earth and in your hearts; our Savior is keeping him alive forever. You will see him again. May God bless each of you and may His grace shower you with healing.
myrna mulkey higgins says
to all of Tim’s family our deepest sympathy. A fine Kinsey lad that will be missed by many. May the Lord bless you and keep you through the sadness of this….from a fellow Kinsey Kid Myrna Mulkey Higgins and Michael Higgins
Ruben and June Opp says
Cindy and family, Evie and all your family, we are so saddened to hear about the passing of your loved one at such a young age. Our prayers are that God will bless and comfort you during these difficult days and in the days ahead. Love and peace to you all.
Ruben and June Opp
Tom & Gina Zeilstra says
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim & Cathy Bastian says
We are so sorry! Tim had the kindest softest heart. Our prayers are with you all.
Darlene Pestreich says
Sending our deepest sympathy. Tim was a wonderful person and we always enjoyed him. Such a happy enthusiastic person. Very sorry for your loss.
Pam Rogge says
Condolences and prayers for comfort to Tim’s family at this time and in the days ahead.
Linda Walker says
My sympathy to the wonderful Wildman family.
Lynelle Tompkins says
Tim was the best. When he blasted into the N.A.P.A. store you always knew the world was alive and well. When you guys moved it was like someone turned off the lights in town. He was missed then and all of us who knew him will grieve with you.
Carolyn E Hays says
My deepest sympathies. I adored Tim. He was so friendly and truly cared about people. He made it his mission to know everyone he met from kids names, where you worked and when you would be home or at work. He delivered many packages to me at the Blue Spruce when I worked there instead of coming out on Slaughter House to deliver to me. Knew my kid’s names, always asked about them, knew my husband-he was just Tim! The world has lost a special person. May God speed your healing and help you keep your memories bright. (Cooky Johnson Hays)
Larry and Nan Quinlan says
Larry and Nan Quinlan send deepest sympathy for Tim s family. The best U.P.S. Man ever. Always so happy , helpful and friendly. I’m sure he will be missed by his family.
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Connie Brown says
To Tim’s family,
My prayers are with you all at this time of loss. It was a loss to our community when we lost the best UPS man Forsyth ever had. He not only knew where you lived, where you worked,what you drove but where he could find you to deliver your package. He was truly one of life’s great people, and together we will mourn his passing!
Ron and Marilyn Frize says
We were so sad to hear of Tim’s passing. Our hearts ache for all of Tim’s family.
Burl Mulkey says
sorry for your loss
Pam Carey-Goplen says
Rest in Peace my Dear Cousin. So many memories of our growing up years at Kinsey. I’ll hold you in my heart forever.
Cori Hanel Brubaker’ says
I’m so sorry to hear about Tim. Prayers to the entire Wildman family.
Lynn ziebarth says
Greatest person for kindness and treated everyone the same so sorry. Rest in peace Tim you deserve it
Kolleen (Waldo) Forsyth says
Sincere sympathies, Wildman family. We always enjoyed Tim, during our growing up years, when we were all young parents, and in Forsyth – where Tim had earned a huge Fan Club. This is sad news.
Lin Cory Koerper says
Tim was such a neat UPS driver. Always a warm greeting and short conversation with each stop. My dogs looked forward to see him drive in the yard. They knew they were in for a treat! He was special in many ways. To his family I send prayers that our Lord hold you close and give you His peace and healing.
Dolores Meidinger Willson says
I am saddened to see that Tim, one of our “Kinsey” family has passed away. To all the Wildman and Carey families, let your great memories comfort you in the days ahead. My sincere sympathy to all of you.
Pam s Dotson says
Cindy and Family :
What a shock. My heart goes out to all of you. Tim was the best. I remember when you and him got together in Forsyth. He was so happy as he always was. Sending lots of hugs and prayers. Hold on to the memories and always remember to laugh as he did.
Penny (Sumer) Schmidt says
I was so sad to see this obituary. I worked with Tim at A&W when we were in high school. He was the best. A hard worker, but always fun to be around. He was the best. I hope your wonderful memories bring you comfort and peace.
Richard and LInda Meidinger says
So sorry for your loss. I knew Tim many years ago when Travis and Tiff were little. I always thought he was a super guy. MIssed having him around when he moved to Forsythe. May he rest in peace. Prayers and thoughts go out to all his family. May your super memories help you through this difficult time. Hugs
Carolyn Schenk says
To Tim’s family, such a heartache you’re having to deal with. He was a kind and wonderful UPS delivery guy here in Forsyth. Always had a smile on his face when he seen you. Dave and I are so sorry for your loss. Will continue to pray for your comfort at this sad time. R I P Tim. !!
Tracee L RAYMOND says
To Tim’s entire family, Tim will be dearly missed! My condolences to all of you! Your all in my thoughts and prayers! RIP Tim
Charlie Gunther says
So sorry to hear of Tim’s passing. He was always so full of life back in the day. Always gave me a hug, treated me like family in our younger years. May you all hold those memories close.
Lori Rust says
My heart goes out to the family and friends. May Tim live on through the memories and stories told.
Clark Fletcher says
Always a smile and a smart remark, and always on! Such a surprise to hear of his passing! Thoughts and prayers to his family. Rest In Peace Tim!
Tim, Deb, Zach, Drew Davis says
To all of Tim’s family we are sadden by this news. Tim was a wonderful, caring , and a great man. He always spent time listening to a person when he dropped off packages. He didn’ mind when seconds and minutes went by. He was a chattering person whom loved people. He will be missed and forever not forgotten.
Brandi Bermes says
He was the best UPS man! His big smile, loud laugh and larger then life personality will be missed. Sorry to hear of his passing, I will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Maryjo Barnard says
Can, I was so sorry to hear of Tims passing. I will forever hear his laughter, and how he always looked at you with so much love. Hugs to you my friend.
Maryjo Barnard says
Cyn, I was so sorry to hear of Tims passing. I will forever hear his laughter, and how he always looked at you with so much love. Hugs to you my friend.
Randy Stanhope says
So sorry to hear about Tim’s passing he will be missed prayers to the family
Kenneth Drane says
So sorry to hear of your loss. Over the years I enjoyed working with Tim at ups. Again so sorry we will keep all of Tim’s family in our thoughts and prayers.
Grace Larson says
Lyle and I really liked Tim and visited with hi when he was our UPS guy, and also when his family had the grocery store. With Sympathy for Tim’s family. He was a fantastic man.
Sophia Smith says
Tiffany,
I am so very deeply sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you during this difficult time.
Curtis W Myran says
Sometimes the smallest of things get forgotten over time. Not so for Timmy and I. Like “Timmy Man” and “Curtie Boy” and I was older but not bigger. He was so much fun! He was like my little big brother. He was my hunting partner here at Haughan’s, at Knolton, and at The Leanin Tree and Checkerboard. We were always honest with each other, even when I was right. Kidding aside, He was one of my best friends. I loved that man and it started when Timmy came to live with my family and I for a while way back when we were children. He was kind and good to me when I came home from Vietnam and through all the ups and downs of our lives. Tim was Tim and never a fake. We always new where each stood or when we fell down. Especially on our elk hunting trips to Randy and Paula’s at Checkerboard or at Harley and Judy’s and hunting whitetails on Johnny Duncan’s. These are places we tripped and fell down because of Mr. Crown. I went there on my vacations for 30 years or more. Oh yes those were the days as they were at Tim and Cyn’s “Ponderosa” and Cyn you can vouch for the times full of laughter and tears there. You and Timmy were a bright spot in the lives of my sons and I in my life when we were fending for ourselves. We are not the same people now, there is this huge empty void, this space that cannot be filled by anyone, now that my friend, your husband, is gone forevermore! I’m sorry Cyn. I should have stayed closer to you guys after you moved. Especially after the year my of heart attacks, stoppages and injuries in 2020. I say this publicly because I feel saddened that time moved on and now “should have” sounds real hollow! I love all of Timmy’s family!
Curtis
Cyn Wildman says
Thank you all for your prayers, memories and condolences. You are all right the Wildman was a special man. I remember making him show me his drivers license because I didn’t believe his last name perfectly described him. Bigger than life…that was him! I miss him so much it hurts. I am trying to hold on to all the wonderful moments and memories as we all are.
The kids and I appreciate you.
Love, Cyn aka Cindy aka Cynthia