Truman Terry Essex (75) passed away on June 28, 2022 at a Hospice Home in Bonita Springs, Florida.
Terry was born July 30, 1946 to Truman Theodore and Eunice Essex in Columbus, MT. He is the oldest of four siblings.
Terry married Connie Jean Brewer in Forsyth on January 18, 1964. Together they had Timothy, Aaron, JT, Zamian and Amber.
Terry married Garnet Luhman DuBois on February 20, 1993 gaining two additional children Colin and Charlee.
Terry worked for Standard Nutrition from 12/26/1967 to retirement on December 31, 2011. Terry started in Montana as a sales rep, became district manager, then Regional manager for Montana plus western Canada. Terry and his partners acquired Standard in February 1988 and he spread his wings from there! He worked in Washington, Oregon, Idaho, Utah, Montana, North Dakota, South Dakota, Texas, New Mexico, Colorado, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Louisiana, Minnesota, and also touched few surrounding states in the US with assists in Iowa, Nebraska and Wisconsin when Bill Dyer needed help. He also worked in Canada, the three prairie provinces were his focus. He always said it’s not work if you’re doing what you love!
Terry’s hobbies when not working a career he truly loved and spending time with family and friends included golfing, running, biking, traveling, reading and BBQing. He loved going to Hell Creek taking his boat out on the water and skiing while living in MT. Terry hated to drive, so he got his pilot’s license and enjoyed flying his plane for over 30 years.
Terry is survived by his wife of 29 years, Garnet. Siblings: Larry (Gayle)Essex (Lawson, MO), Janet(Bobby) Pauley (Miles City, MT), Maretta(Tim) Freshour (Forsyth, MT) His children: JT (Lynn) Essex (Billings, MT), Colin(Cyndi) DuBois (Paxinos, PA), Zamian(Meisha) Essex (Red Lodge, MT), Charlee(Rob) Creasy (Westcliffe, CO), and Amber Essex (Bonita Springs, FL). Daughter in law, Wendee(Aaron) Essex (Miles City, MT). Foster son, Lynn Whitehawk. He is also survived by many grandchildren, TJ(Justine) Essex (Cheyenne, WY), Tyler Essex(Destiny Martinez) (Cheyenne, WY), Tory Essex (Billings, MT), Chuck Riemer(Anna Johnson) (Fort Myers, FL), Sean Riemer (Billings,MT), Kimi(Greg) Bush (Sheridan, WY), Cassandra DuBois(Carter Durnell) (Bozeman, MT), Madison Creasy (Bonita Springs, FL), Jordan Read (Portland OR), Makenzee Creasy (Westcliffe, CO), Noah Essex (Red Lodge,MT), Cavan Essex (Red Lodge, MT) and also great grandchildren Miley Essex, Karleigh Essex (both of Billings, MT), Liam Contreraz, Aleata Riemer, Mason Riemer (all of Fort Myers, FL) & Adeline Bush (Sheridan, WY).Extended friends who were family, Dave and Rene Pulver (Forsyth, MT). Terry had one adopted grandchild as well, Trinity Nielson (Billings, MT) as well as many in-laws.
Terry is preceded in death by his first wife Connie Brewer Essex, son’s Timothy and Aaron Essex, parent’s Truman and Eunice Essex, brothers in law Bobby Pauley, Lex Luhman and adopted daughter, Stephanie Hein.
In lieu of Flowers, please donate to Mark Wanner and Monty Haselhuhn’s school memorial funds. You can venmo @DogiesBoosterClub or send a check to Forsyth Dogies Booster Club, PO Box 670, Forsyth, MT 59327. Terry loved high school sports and these two men had a huge impact on all of his children.
Sally Wanner says
Terry touched so many lives. I’ll always have fond memories of the running group, many problems solved and lots of belly laughs.
Bob Custer says
Terry was a great running and beer brewing partner. We would solve the world’s problem on a long run. On a short run we would continue to solve the world’s problems with beers afterwards. My condolences, prayers, and thoughts go out to the family.
Lynelle Tompkins says
Lord, I am so sorry to hear this. With his joy of life I figured he would live forever as he will in our memories. He would want no tears or sorrow.
Connie Brown says
Was a shock to see Terry has passed on to that great running place in Heaven! I first met Terry and Connie and kids when I moved to Forsyth; almost 50 years ago. We had a lot of good memories at Hell Creek, along with the memory of thinking we had met our waterloo trying to come back from the play in their boat. Condolences and prayers to his entire family!
Callie clark says
So sorry for your loss your family is in my prayers.
Carolyn E Hays says
To all 4 of you kids, so sorry to hear of your dads passing. Frank and I managed the campground for your folks for several years and had many fun visits with them both. Keep both of your folks in your hearts and memories and take care of each other. They are never truly gone until you stop remembering them. God bless and keep all of you. Cooky
Jim Adams says
Ran many miles with Terry. Great guy.
Ira Gresens says
My deepest sympathy
Jennifer Ferguson Johnson says
I’m so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Pam shelton says
So sorry for your loss.
Ann Baskett says
Garnet I am so very sorry to hear that Terry passed. I have ma y fond memories of y’all back in the AC days…prayers all around.
Ann Baskett says
Garnet I am so very sorry to hear that Terry passed. I have many fond memories of y’all back in the AC days…prayers all around.
Dennis & Ann Anderson says
Terry with Garnet brought adventure, good memories, and a lot of laughter into our lives. What an adventure it was being hopeless lost in Italy because Terry would not follow Garnet’s instructions. The two of them became like family to us and Terry will be greatly missed. We loved him so much. Dennis and Ann Anderson
Toynette P Rolston says
So sorry to hear about Terry. I called him a rough, tough cream puff. He portrayed a tough exterior, but had a kind, loving and wonderful heart. He always filled a room with his personality. Rest in peace.
Toynette Rolston
Sandi Van Pelt says
Garnet and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Terry’s passing.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Chelsey Teeters says
Thinking of you all in this difficult time.
Hugs ♥
Bob N says
I have fond memories of Federated Youth Group, Rapid City tour and post-event activities. We even used some Standard mineral. Blessings to all the family.
Eric Wanner says
He once called me Eric the Bold at my brother Mark’s bachelor party (I think). It sort of stuck because Mark would call me that from time to time. I’m not sure what it meant but we can be sure it was in good fun. Mark spoke highly of his good friend Terry. I am sure they enjoy being reunited now. God bless!
Doug Donley says
• Sorry to hear of Terry’s passing; Terry definitely left his footprint in the sands of time. His friendship and memories are with us.
Wes Wes Malenovsky says
REST IN PEACE MAGIC
Vickie H Burdine says
Terry was an amazing man! Didn’t know he and Garnet for many years, but definitely consider them dear friends. Terry was always so full of life, and the life of the party. Also fun to just go drink wine on the porch with them! Prayers for Garnet and family as they deal with this enormous loss.
Angele Boyd Myers says
We are so very sad that Terry has left us and miss him. We got to know him and Garnet as neighbors when they moved to Fl. We so enjoyed his fiesty life perspective and warm friendship, and admired his accomplishments and great family. Our deepest sympathy to Garnet and all the family. Angèle
Bruce Myers says
We are so sad that Terry passed away. I met Terry when they moved across the street from us in Bonita Springs. We became golf buddies where he helped this beginner improve immensely while still having a good laugh. We enjoyed his carefree attitude and friendship, and will miss his friendship and laughter. Our deepest sympathy to Garnet and all of his family.
Gil and Dynella says
Garnet:
Sorry to hear of your loss. We enjoyed having you as our neighbor on 4th St. Didn’t know Terry well, but you were an inspiration to him and to all around you. Our thoughts of comfort and peace are with you. Dynella and Gil
Jackie Armstrong says
So Sorry for the loss to all Aaron was a co-worker at Washington Middle School. Always enjoyed the family stories we shared.
Cindy Warner and Family says
Terry was a person that you liked immediately upon meeting him. He was outgoing and quick with a smile. He had a way to make you feel included and special. I loved listening to his stories. I think the thing I liked best about Terry was the way he looked at my Aunt Garnet. I loved seeing all their pictures and the good times they were having. I looked forward to each and every trip they took out of their way to come see us. Even when it was just one night and a great dinner together catching up. He will be greatly missed. I wish I could be there to say goodbye to a great person 😔 My thoughts are with you.
Ralph D. Wilson says
The memory of Terry Essex is one that I will cherish for all my days. Word of his passing came to me late and I feel bad for that. He was one of a kind. I was very fortunate to know, work with and learn from him. Rest in peace Essex.